Archduke Chocula Posted December 13, 2007 Posted December 13, 2007 The frustrating thing is I wish I knew WHY she rejected me after a month and a half of seeing each other. We had good chemistry and always had fun. Then she leaves me a text telling me not to call her again, and I'm running through everything in my mind trying to figure out what I did wrong, or where I misread her. Can't figure it out, although I'm sure one day I'll have an epiphany and give myself a good ass-kicking over it. Sigh.. why does it have to be so difficult? I feel like I'm walking through a minefield; one false move and it all blows up in my face. Seems effortless for everybody else. Tell me I'll figure this out someday..
ElvenPriestess Posted December 13, 2007 Posted December 13, 2007 Well I don't think you're at fault here. I prefer the straight forward approach, and her telling you not to call her without a really good reason is pretty messed up. And selfish. But as far as figuring the system out, that's not too complicated. I believe there are two types of daters/relationship people. One is the type who plays games, makes too high of expectations, and only thinks of themselves. I obviously classify this girl in that category. Then there are the other kinds of people, who are to the point, let you know what's wrong before making hasty decisions, and consider you as well as themselves in these situations. Relationships tend to be taken too lightly these days. So just keep an eye out for the #2 people, and you'll find it easier to understand things. And be cautious of the people in #1. I hope that's of some use.
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