smokiejjj Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Hi, My wife and I have been living apart for more than 2 months now. She filed for divorce about 1/2 a month ago. Once I got the papers in the mail, I emailed her saying that I would like to be as civil as possible with her and move on with the divorce as smoothly as possible. I said that I wanted to work out a settlement as equitable as possible and not talk about the past. She called me that night and immediately launched into calling me horrible names and blaming everything on me. She said I manipulated her into marriage and brought up issues from 2 years before we were married. I take blame for things I have done that caused the marriage to fall apart. She has done many things as well that damaged the marriage but never accepts and fault and just stays on the past issues. I just don't know why she continues to abuse me on the phone when all I want to do is move on. I don't understand why she has to use horrible names all the time and blame me for everything. I don't know if we should try again - she seems now that she is opened to trying again but I just feel that I will constantly be abused in the future. I hate that it has come to this. I don't understand how someone can be so abusive and fight dirty all the time, she constantly hangs up on me, constantly puts me down. It is just very painful. I guess I just don't understand how it all went wrong.
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