Is this relationship worth it? Post is really long sorry!!

[Dboo103]

Hello everyone this is my first post. I've been dating this guy for about two years now he's 29 and I'm 18. To a lot of people it may sound crazy which it can be at times but where to start my father owns his own business and my boyfriend and me where working for my father and he was having sex with this girl that worked for my father while he was living with his ex fiance. As you can tell he used to be a BIG player or atleast he used to talk to all the guys at work as if he was. We started talking he ws really sweet but I never in my life thought I'd consider dating him he was 27 and already has a kid with his ex wife. We started talking and flirting a little bit but my father told him to stay away from me which he was doing until we started flirting and then hanging out after work then he kissed me one night and it all started from there. Six months into it I caught him with his ex fiance. I guess you can say I hacked into his email and saw an email from her saying I had a great time today... I was furious then called him at 3 in the morning screaming at him and he denied it until he saw and he was more concerned how I got in his email finally he admitted it and said he went to see her because he was haing financial issues and his mother needs a place to stay and that his ex has a room available at her apartment and I was so hurt but trying to be understanding was I wrong? We made it through he cried and told me he loved me but he understands we work together so I had to see him everyday and we decided to give it another try, I missed him a lot! About six months down the road we were together for about a year some girl called his phone and he went staight to speaking spanish and that raised a flag he hung the phone up and looked shocked and I got upset because I knew it had to be an ex he blamed that on his mother and said she gave his number to this girl because this girls mom and his mom are supposibly friends I was upset we got in a huge argument but once again I forgave him... Not to mention in the beginning of me and him I saw my ex I admit BUT we weren't b/f and g/f yet and about a month after I saw my ex I told my b/f It hurt me so I told him. My b/f just lies I think he's afraid my father will fire him mind you since me and him been together he's got almost an $8 raise. I know he cares about me but I think sometimes he acts like his crap don't stink! We moved in together now but I ask myself I'm only 18 he's my second b/f he's been with so many women been married once and also engagged to another girl been in the navy been all around the world and went to hundreds of clubs has a kid who is only 10 years younger then me! It's hard on me I want to get married soon and have kids all my friends are doing all of that but I feel my boyfriend doesn't want to get married because he's already done that he always says he has 1 kid and that's enough and I can't stand it. I tell him I want kids and he laughs like it's a joke. I want to do things that I've never done and I feel he doesn't want to do them because he's done them! He doesn't want to go to clubs because he says hes broke which I think is BS because he spends money on his car left and right. Someone please give me any 411 thank you every one

[Carmen87]

You know that old saying "Age doesn't matter"? Well, it is correct to a point, but there are exceptions. Age matters when two people have different priorities in life and that is what is happening here. Not only does this guy have a crazy background, but hes been there done that. You are 18, find someone closer in age and go out to have fun. It isn't time to be thinking about a husband and kids.