LiveKhaos Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Hi. I'm a little confused at the moment because I've never taken the initiative to make any of my so called "relationships" in the past official. We've just assumed that we were together and that's that...but with this girl she actually means something special and I want to know how I can ask her or let her know that I want it to be official between me and her. I've been talking to this girl for 2 months now and I've never made such a connection with any girl before. We feel like we can tell each other everything. I think that just straight asking her "hey lets boogie and make it official" is way to tacky...but then again I could be wrong. The reason that it seems as though I'm in a rush is because I'm going up state next week to see her but after I come back down here she'll be leaving to another country to study abroad in January. I am leaving to the same country to study as well but in July of Next year. Since I have to go to that country to take care of some business before I start school in July, I will be visiting her in March and May. We have both talked about it and she's told me that she doesn't want us to end when she leaves before me, and I agreed, we just have to make it work until July. I don't want her to leave and then we've left things sort of unfinished and eventually she might find someone else. It's not that I'm insecure, I guess I'm just worried about loosing someone so special because I never made a move. So what do y'all think? Should I and how do I make it official when I go up there next week?
Elyssa Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Internet relationships fail a vast majority of the time when one or both people fail to meet the other's expectations, so you might find that after that first meeting, all this planning will be moot. Meet her first and see how it goes. If it looks like it might actually stick, -then- make it official. It'd make you look kind of silly if you announce a relationship that dies off after the first time you meet her. -E
Author LiveKhaos Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 No your right... Thats why if I were to do anything it would have to be done after I met her, not before... I have to admit I am a little bit anxious at this moment because I have no Idea what to expect in person... I guess you could say I'm nervous and its weird because I'm never like this... I just don't want all of this to be a waste of time...been through too much crap already...
Author LiveKhaos Posted January 2, 2008 Author Posted January 2, 2008 ***Update: (If any care) Well its been about 3 weeks since I wrote this...lol I met her we clicked once again in person and I made it official...
Nevermind Posted January 2, 2008 Posted January 2, 2008 Aw. This is great. Lots of happiness for you two!
Meaplus3 Posted January 3, 2008 Posted January 3, 2008 ***Update: (If any care) Well its been about 3 weeks since I wrote this...lol I met her we clicked once again in person and I made it official... That's so great! I wish you the best of luck! AP:)
Author LiveKhaos Posted January 3, 2008 Author Posted January 3, 2008 Thank you for your wishes! I too wish you all the best!...
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