reboot Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 For me, if I can't get there, it's extremely frustrating, although it's very rare that I don't. It's no different than men, I guess.That wasn't what I asked.
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Interesting, because when I pleasure myself it's not the C I focus on. And with oral I've felt the focus to be on both. I've also understood that to cum is more regular with the V. Is this true? Haha...it's almost impossible not to get graphic in this thread, is it? "C" type is sharp, intense and...throbbing. "V" type is a slower build, then depending on intensity, can be sharp and then a slower release. It's very difficult to describe the sensations. Perhaps someone else can do a better job at it. I daren't say I suck at this. guess my question is, is how you get there as important as getting there? How you get there, defines if you get there. How you get there is also defined by the mood you're in. Sometimes you're in a hurry, other times, you want to take it slowly.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 Well you have me quite fascinated TBF but you're right, I'm pushing the graphic limits aren't I?
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Not at all EP. I'm more concerned about how far I should go, to the point of tasteless or not. It's kind of difficult to discuss this in a completely clinical fashion, without getting a little crude.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 While I don't mind how crude you might get, I don't want the other viewers to be uncomfortable.
reboot Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 How you get there, defines if you get there. How you get there is also defined by the mood you're in. Sometimes you're in a hurry, other times, you want to take it slowly.I'm struggling to get a straight answer out of you TBF. Ok, NC-17 here. If I got you off (general you here, since we're not compatible ) 3 or 4 or 5 times orally, and then we had intercourse, and you didn't get off again, would you be disappointed? That was the gist of my question. I don't mean to pick on you, but you did reply to my question and I just want to understand your answer.
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 I'm struggling to get a straight answer out of you TBF. Ok, NC-17 here. If I got you off (general you here, since we're not compatible ) 3 or 4 or 5 times orally, and then we had intercourse, and you didn't get off again, would you be disappointed? That was the gist of my question. I don't mean to pick on you, but you did reply to my question and I just want to understand your answer. How is this possible, if we're not compatible? If there's compatibility, if the former happened, the latter wouldn't happen but if it did, yes, I would be wall climbing frustrated, since I far, far prefer the latter, to the former. You might get a different answer from women who prefer the former.
reboot Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 How is this possible, if we're not compatible? If there's compatibility, if the former happened, the latter wouldn't happen but if it did, yes, I would be wall climbing frustrated, since I far, far prefer the latter, to the former. You might get a different answer from women who prefer the former.Thank you! I've been with both types in my life, I'm just curious which is more common.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 How is this possible, if we're not compatible? If there's compatibility, if the former happened, the latter wouldn't happen but if it did, yes, I would be wall climbing frustrated, since I far, far prefer the latter, to the former. You might get a different answer from women who prefer the former. Is it REALLY that much better in intercourse???
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Thank you! I've been with both types in my life, I'm just curious which is more common. You're welcome. If I were to guess, the more common is the former. As EP mentioned, some women aren't able to have the latter, for whatever reasons. I'll add that the latter is more meaningful and incredibly intense, more a sharing of complete intimacy with both parties getting off or again, it's kind of meaningless, more a selfish act for one party or the other. It's difficult to explain but I suspect you know what I mean.
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Is it REALLY that much better in intercourse??? For me, it is. Please refer to my response to reboot.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 Ah! I have heard of people, please excuse this everyone, cumming together. I've always hoped to experience that. I imagine it's still a strain on the guy to "hold out." Have I crossed the line yet?
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 He doesn't have to hold out, if you allow his pleasure and desire to fuel yours. Also, women can have more than one.
reboot Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 You're welcome. If I were to guess, the more common is the former. As EP mentioned, some women aren't able to have the latter, for whatever reasons.That's been my experience too.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 Ah, I know during oral I can have more than one, also when I pleasure myself. I just have zero experience with intercourse and your input, TBF, is most appreciated.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 That's been my experience too. Is there anything that you've noticed that differentiates the two?
reboot Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Is there anything that you've noticed that differentiates the two?I have no idea what makes them different. The last woman I was in a relationship with prior to hooking up with my wife was just the opposite. She had no problem at all getting off during intercourse, and oral to her was just foreplay, not the means to an end that it is with my wife. Beats me what the difference is.
Cobra_X30 Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 I have no idea what makes them different. The last woman I was in a relationship with prior to hooking up with my wife was just the opposite. She had no problem at all getting off during intercourse, and oral to her was just foreplay, not the means to an end that it is with my wife. Beats me what the difference is. I think it all comes down to which one she wants first!
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 I think it all comes down to which one she wants first! THough I only have half that experience, well said;)
reboot Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 I think it all comes down to which one she wants first! One was blonde, the other wasn't... could that be it?
sumdude Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 Ah! I have heard of people, please excuse this everyone, cumming together. I've always hoped to experience that. I imagine it's still a strain on the guy to "hold out." Have I crossed the line yet? Depends on the guy I guess... usually round 2 has a lot more stamina than round 1. Man... this thread is almost making me miss my ex wife.. When things were good, they were really, really good.. grrgr.. it's been too long. Experinced the tandem 'O' many times. When there's both the pysical and emotional connection and you know each other that well it's pretty amazing. As far as the 'C' vs. the 'V'... she would have both. A few times even at the same time..
Cobra_X30 Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 THough I only have half that experience, well said;) My experience with life... is that people only tend to give you what you ask for. One was blonde, the other wasn't... could that be it? Probably! Unless you were with them at the same time... Wouldnt put that past you!
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 12, 2007 Author Posted December 12, 2007 It's not that I don't want that Cobra, it's a matter of what the guy is willing to put out.
Cobra_X30 Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 It's not that I don't want that Cobra, it's a matter of what the guy is willing to put out. Ouch! Thats kinda selfish, and I would bet if he is that selfish in the bedroom it carries over into other things as well. You may have already covered this earlier in the thread, but have you told him about this? Really if you tell him that he sucks in bed... most guys would go crazy trying to fix it. I have met a few who wouldnt though... They tend to be Aholes anyway though.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 13, 2007 Author Posted December 13, 2007 Ouch! Thats kinda selfish, and I would bet if he is that selfish in the bedroom it carries over into other things as well. You may have already covered this earlier in the thread, but have you told him about this? Really if you tell him that he sucks in bed... most guys would go crazy trying to fix it. I have met a few who wouldnt though... They tend to be Aholes anyway though. Ok, I think my statement came out wrong. It's not about being bad in bed, I simply meant that some guys are willing to do more or less than others to please a female. I have not brought this up since there's been no sex.
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