jlv26 Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 My ex officaly broke up with me one week ago. We were together for three years. I know I caused her so much pain to where se finally just gave up on me. She gave me so many signs for me to change and I just didn't see them. You only start to see them when you lost her. Depression runs in my family. I have come to realize I've had it for some quite time, I have never really felt good about myself and am negative all the time on stuff. But today I made a step to get myself better I went and talked to a counselor. It felt so good to get things off my chest, I just want to know why I couldn't do this with her. I want to tell her how thankfull I am for everything that she did for me. and its not her fault for what happened (she went through adivorce before she met me.) I feel so bad that I did this to her Should I tell her this when I have to give her things back on friday? I know there will never be a second chance with her again .I think I'm going to tell her for some clouser on my part that I truley am sorry. Its time to move on and fix my life and to make myself better for when the next relationship comes.
Ronni_W Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 A friend did that -- started off by saying he wasn't looking for a 2nd chance or to influence her thoughts or feelings but just to let her know that he was starting to understand why she left and that he was sorry for his part. (This was also after he'd started counseling.) She told him to "stuff it" but they did end up having a SMALL improvement in their post-separation relationship. BTW, Congrats on taking the steps to improve things for your Self
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