waitingwaitingonyou Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 Well I am going on vaca for three weeks. The ex wants me to come by her house the day i leave for the airport. I have kept LC for a while and the last 5 days I have opted to NC. She was bugging me about it last week. Then I just dropped all contact with her. The airport is by her house. I still love this girl yes. But I want to heal. And I am almost over her totally. I Just dont want to back track. Should I go and see her or should I just let it go. We broke up a little over a month ago and I have not seen her since the breakup. So personally I do not know what to do. I think it is best to not go, I mean if I go I could get shot down or even worse. I dont know... Insight?
curiousnycgirl Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 I agree you don't want to go over there. Tell her you are running around like a nut trying to get ready/close down before vacation, etc and that you will not have time before your departure. Hey have a great trip!
sedgwick Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 I'd say don't see her until you're sure you're completely over her. Sometimes it takes a while. I've never been able to be "friends" with any of my exes for at least a year after the breakup.
Author waitingwaitingonyou Posted December 11, 2007 Author Posted December 11, 2007 Yeah I agree.... It has been over a month...she has done most of the calling. She broke up with me. But oh well. I am going to a friends house instead!!
thewholeshabangg Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 & plus.. it could ruin your whole vacation if things go bad! or even seeing her could.. don't go. enjoy your vacation.
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