Rowen Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 It's been just under three months since she broke it off with me. We had light contact... 14 days was the most NC we had, until I called her on her bday. WE had more LC etc off and on. It's now been almost two weeks with no contact again, but this time right before this NC she told me VIA text that she wished we had talked more lately and she cared about me. Now she has seemingly dissapeared off the face of the earth. She doesn't go on msn, facebook ,internet at all!! Why.....Why open up and sya that then go silent. I had to pull her teeth about 3 weeks ago to find out she has a new bf... etc. We were getting into more contact, then that came up , and now about two weeks ago she has gone into no contact after saying that ****.
Ocean-Blue Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 It's been just under three months since she broke it off with me. We had light contact... 14 days was the most NC we had, until I called her on her bday. WE had more LC etc off and on. It's now been almost two weeks with no contact again, but this time right before this NC she told me VIA text that she wished we had talked more lately and she cared about me. Now she has seemingly dissapeared off the face of the earth. She doesn't go on msn, facebook ,internet at all!! Why.....Why open up and sya that then go silent. I had to pull her teeth about 3 weeks ago to find out she has a new bf... etc. We were getting into more contact, then that came up , and now about two weeks ago she has gone into no contact after saying that ****. Why not continue with NC on your end? If you could do it for 14 days, surely you can do it for longer? If she doesn't want contact with you, she'll make sure to avoid you (as she's been doing).
Author Rowen Posted December 11, 2007 Author Posted December 11, 2007 Why not continue with NC on your end? If you could do it for 14 days, surely you can do it for longer? If she doesn't want contact with you, she'll make sure to avoid you (as she's been doing). That's fine. But my issue is.. she did all the contacting until this period of NC, then she dissapeared. SHe contacted me probbaly 95 percent of the time since the break up! Even called me two weekends ago.
Ocean-Blue Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 That's fine. But my issue is.. she did all the contacting until this period of NC, then she dissapeared. SHe contacted me probbaly 95 percent of the time since the break up! Even called me two weekends ago. From what I've read on here and from personal experience (via friends, etc), I can tell you that women like to hang around after the break-up to keep tabs...for what reason, I don't know. Who did the breaking up?
Author Rowen Posted December 11, 2007 Author Posted December 11, 2007 From what I've read on here and from personal experience (via friends, etc), I can tell you that women like to hang around after the break-up to keep tabs...for what reason, I don't know. Who did the breaking up? She broke up with me in september. I got back from a las vegas trip on sept 1st. That night and for the week and a half after, our relationship was abosolutely incredible. PLanning our 6 month etc.. buying presents. Then she started to hint around (even before our arguments) that she may be really really busy. I think she looked for an excuse to break up with me. Somaybe in the future she will see that breaking up with me had no merrit at all.
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