Aarondreyer Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 It turns out i was right, and my girlfriend has fancied my lesbian friend for some time now...They got off one night after talking about it for a long time and decided to start a relationship (The morning before she dumped me.) What do i think....my lesbian friend apparently still wants to be "Mates." but she did just steal my girlfriend, my girlfriend said she orchastrated all of it, and that she told my lesbian friend to lie to me on the phone, she said "I am not the kind of person that would sweep her right out from under your feet"...well they were going out at that point. I dunno what to do..it is nice to finally have some closure, but what should i do about friendships, is it wrong to still be friends with either of them, she cheated on me and the lesbian lied to me....when we were meant to be friends.....and then they expect me to keep all this a "Secret" what would you people do?
Lee725 Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 Walk away from both of them. if it was your male friend who started dating her, you would probably not be thinking twice about not speaking to him again. The fact she is a lesbian (your friend) is kind of irrelevant for the point i am trying to make here. She was your mate. Mates dont do that. My friends and i have what is called the "forbidden fruit" (dumb i know), this means any person that any of us has dated is off limits. This is a big world full of people and we (my friends) dont need to be dating each other's EX's. As for your GF, walk away from her as if she has started dating another man. (i know it may not be that easy), but try. Distance yourself from both of them because if they want this kept a "secret", and it does come out one way or another, you are the person who they are likely to come after because you are the one who would seem to be the "bitter" one because she "took" your GF. Let them do what ever they want, if you want to be there later on as a friend that is your choice, but wait untill the dust has settled and you are healed enough to deal with the situation with a clear head.
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