inthistwilight Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 Ok. So here's the story. This guy who i've noticed around the halls of college before, strikes up a convo in a lunch line a few months ago. I act kinda shy and don't talk much. A few hours realize how stupid i was & track him down on the college website, message him, and we start chatting a bit via college website. I ask him if he'd like to go for a bite etc one time & he agrees.. We try to plan a day buuut things fall apart. This happens for about 2 months so i give up. A Few weeks later I see him in the study hall. He's OVERLY flirty, touching me.. asking me for my phone number, giving me his. All my friends make comments ( they were close by ) A few days go by.. I deside because he was the one who was initiating the "going out thing" I should call. Get voicemail & leave one. I don't hear back from him for over a week . He appologizes says he's just so busy & we will go out soon. We chitchat over internet.. for a few days and it dies. By now i'm getting a little hurt. Then I see him in the hall.. I act very cold.. just greet him and keep moving. I realize this is rude.. & i'm being as mixed as him which is stupid. So I text him and appologize for my rudeness a day later. I dont get a responce for 5 days.. And he just says "oh you weren't to mean.. " Nothing about going out.. or anything. I have no idea where this guy is going or coming from.. All my friends are stumped. Some things make him sounds like he's sooo into me and some things sounds like i repulse him. Only problem is he's kinda hurting me.. I do really like him & would like to go out with him.. Maybe i should let him know this. One think i do know.. He has mentioned how hurt he was a few months ago.. and "can't deal with dating" maybe this affect his actions? Thanks in advance for your answers!
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