just_new Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Hi there! Have recently gotten in a "more-than-friends" relationship with a married woman... We've gotten a bit romantic, holding hands and stuff, missing each other... So far haven't slept with each other but she's kinda cheating her hubs as it is right? Emotionally at least? Told me that whenever they make luv lately, what she does to enjoy it is think about me, as if I'm the one she's making luv with... Anyway, I was hoping there'd be some other guys here with a similar situation who can offer me tips or something since I'm kinda new to this... Like, if should I just wait on her availability (for dates) all the time, or if it's ok for me to go out with other women since she does have her husband... you know, stuff like that... Hope to hear from you. Thanks.
cj1988 Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 She will NOT leave her H for you......of course she is thinking of you, it is new, he is not ! We all do that when in a LTR, you are her TOY if you know what I mean.....she knows you want her and she is getting off on that as well.....she likes the control she had over you and your emotions.....but she will never leave her H and if you are OK with that, you have no respect for you !
KarmaSutra Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Hi there! Have recently gotten in a "more-than-friends" relationship with a married woman... We've gotten a bit romantic, holding hands and stuff, missing each other... So far haven't slept with each other but she's kinda cheating her hubs as it is right? Emotionally at least? Told me that whenever they make luv lately, what she does to enjoy it is think about me, as if I'm the one she's making luv with... Anyway, I was hoping there'd be some other guys here with a similar situation who can offer me tips or something since I'm kinda new to this... Like, if should I just wait on her availability (for dates) all the time, or if it's ok for me to go out with other women since she does have her husband... you know, stuff like that... Hope to hear from you. Thanks. You sound more like a woman than she does. Why are you "waiting" for her to make a decision? If she wants to bang you she will cajole, lie, steal, and even kill to have you inside her. Her husband may think otherwise so you need to weigh whether or not that piece of ass is worth it or not.
reboot Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Why not ask her husband about her "availability"?
jj2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 If you need tips since you are so new to this, why even get into it in the first place? Why not find a single gal and get out of this mess sooner than later? It's not going to be easy and the fun won't last forever. Let this married woman deal with her own problems. Please don't add to them.
Meaplus3 Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Hi there! Have recently gotten in a "more-than-friends" relationship with a married woman... We've gotten a bit romantic, holding hands and stuff, missing each other... So far haven't slept with each other but she's kinda cheating her hubs as it is right? Emotionally at least? Told me that whenever they make luv lately, what she does to enjoy it is think about me, as if I'm the one she's making luv with... Anyway, I was hoping there'd be some other guys here with a similar situation who can offer me tips or something since I'm kinda new to this... Like, if should I just wait on her availability (for dates) all the time, or if it's ok for me to go out with other women since she does have her husband... you know, stuff like that... Hope to hear from you. Thanks. Do a search on Rating's Guy and Oyster, I'm sure you will gain much insight from reading their thread's. AP:)
oyster Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 Do a search on Rating's Guy and Oyster, I'm sure you will gain much insight from reading their thread's. AP:) yes yes, do a search under my user name, you will see I went thru a roller coaster ride
Blue Eyed Brain Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 Talk to your woman to see what she and you want out of this. Make your decision based on the information you receive. Only you can walk into or away from this situation.
norajane Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 Anyway, I was hoping there'd be some other guys here with a similar situation who can offer me tips or something since I'm kinda new to this... Like, if should I just wait on her availability (for dates) all the time, or if it's ok for me to go out with other women since she does have her husband... you know, stuff like that... Hope to hear from you. Thanks. You are so in over your head, you really need to get out now before you drown, painfully. You know she has sex with her husband. Why do you want a woman who is having sex with another guy? Would you date a single woman who has sex with other men? And why would you give up your LIFE - and going out with women who could potentially grow to love you freely and openly - in order to wait and wait around for when she can sneak away from her HUSBAND? Is your life that empty?
reservoirdog1 Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 You are so in over your head, you really need to get out now before you drown, painfully. You know she has sex with her husband. Why do you want a woman who is having sex with another guy? Would you date a single woman who has sex with other men? No kidding. I've never understood the willingness on the part of OMs/OWs to cheerfully have sex with somebody they know is having it with somebody else. Seriously, do you really want to stick your junk where some other guy's blown his wad, as recently as a few hours earlier? Sorry to be so graphic, but that's exactly what it boils down to.
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