loveinlife Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 How can i get my ex back? She wants to keep communication if i ever want to talk to her but doesn't want to see me right now..
Dmeech Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 no man, you can't have her back. Do not communicate with her, it will just hurt you even more. I just been through the same thing, my ex broke up with me 3 times, the first 2 times i won her back... I dont know how but i did, NOTHING changed, same fights same sh@t, everytime she broke up with me it was for the same reasons... so I finally decided to go NC and let her move on with her life/dating someone else. If it didnt work out once then it will prob not work out again. I know it hurt and it's hard, but if she doesn't want to be with you then she is not the girl for you. There will be other girls in your life, trust me. I thought my ex was the ONE for me thats why i got back with her 2 times, but all the heart ache i went through and all the **** she put me through was just not worth it. Don't bother with your ex, move on to bigger better things and you will see what a waste of emotions your ex was. At least thats how I feel right now.
ElvenPriestess Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 She's an ex for a reason. You have to remember that. And the "Keep communicating" thing can NOT happen while there are ANY feelings left between the two of you. Until you've both established the same feelings, or lack there of, you have to separate yourself from her. It's hard, it hurts, I know that. But you'll be happier in the long run. Focus on anything but that. Hobbies, work, friends. Whatever it is that makes you happy. Friends has ALWAYS been the big one for me and breakups. Hope I've helped.
CaliGuy Posted December 11, 2007 Posted December 11, 2007 How can i get my ex back? She wants to keep communication if i ever want to talk to her but doesn't want to see me right now.. You can not. They either come back on their own or they do not. There's NOTHING you can do to "make" someone come back to you. The absolute best thing you can do is move on with your life, and for many reasons. a. Regardless of what happens, if you are stuck on your ex, the RIGHT person for your life can never find you. b. Ex's have a knack of knowing when we've moved on. That's when they magically reappear in our lives. c. Quite often it takes a long time away from our ex's realize they were never good for us to begin with. d. People who truly love you for who you are would never walk away from you. Learn to love yourself and you'll find people will love you too. If you're stuck on your ex, obsessing about them and not focusing in on yourself you will never move on, never learn, never love or respect yourself and stay in a perpetual cycle of misery. The only way to break free of all of this is to MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Period. The best revenge is a life well lived (without your ex in it). And FWIW, CUT OFF communication with her. Don't answer her calls, don't reply to emails or text, don't IM her. NOTHING. In order for you to heal and move on, she needs to be out of your life. Cheers.
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