Aarondreyer Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 i have actually just broken up with my girlfriend, i am just sixteen but this was a year and a half relationship and the first year and 4 months were great. Recently though she has been "Cooling off"...spending less time with me and more time with all her friends, then we were fighting frequently...i even raised my voice at her and i never do that... We decided to take a break but she still wanted to phone me..so it wasn't really a break of any type. and near the end of the relationship i was not sure what was happening ... she would always tell me "I can't meet i have too much work."....which is fair enough, even though i would organise things two weeks in advance. Then her friend would come along and my girlfriend would be able to go out THAT evening...even if she had 4 essays to do that night!!!?? what was that about Anywho today she decided to break all contact...but i see her at college every day, so with no distance from the relationship this is going to be very hard. Why did she break up with me......was i too clingy or does she prefer spending time with her mates...or can't balance all three...i am just having a hard time atm dealing with all this
VenusInFurs Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 I think a lot of people get over a break up by spending more time with their mates, and this is what she appears to be doing. You said you have JUST broken up, so things will be raw, you need space for both of you to clear your heads. It will be difficult at first, but worth it in the end. If you really want to know shes doing alright in life etc, keep the contact minimal. Be polite and friendly when you see her at college, and keep your emotions about the break-up behind close doors. I know this is easier said than done, but trust me, it will benefit you in the long-term. Be strong. The above is advice I wish someone had given me when I broke up with my ex six months ago, its yours to disregard or take. Good luck dude.
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