Aarondreyer Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 I am only 16 and i will keep this short I have been in a relationship (My first serious one) for a year and a half now, recently it has been getting worse and worse...over the past two months, we have gradually broken contact...going on a break and then on a more serious break with now 0 contact and tonight is my first night I was just wondering Recently she has said "I don't want a long relationship anymore" and the fact that she doesn't "Know" if she loves me.... She says she still wants to be friends and that maybe a close relationship could patch things back up, but at the moment talking to her makes me miss her and i don't know if i should go back into a relationship...I still love her of course and she says she might love me still....is she just keeping me as an "Option" or is she just sick of a relationship...Should i take her back if she asks?
thelegend Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Hi young fella sorry you are having such a tough time with things. Tell me something my friend what has made your relationship worse and worse. Was it you or her or both? After you tell me that I can tell you exactly the problem.
Author Aarondreyer Posted December 10, 2007 Author Posted December 10, 2007 well me and her both Prior to the relationship, she was very clingy (Which i don't mind...a clingt girl isn't cheating on you, Right?) Anywho i liked that...then once we moved onto college she started getting close with her other friends (She has always had trouble balancing friends and me) and she started spending less and less time with me...less and less clingy. Gradually i started over compensating by inviting her out more, phoning her more and basically me becoming more clingy too.....which also meant that i would get more worked up if she booked something with me.....and then went out with her friends instead of me!!! It is kind of a combination of both...but if she wouldn't let me get close to her..it was hard to rebuild the relationship...i even tried bringing chocolates round her house once, to show a fresh start, but she was out with her mates (Even though she has told me she was ill and couldn't come to mine) So how knows! it was both of us...but i have tried to repair this all..and it hasn't worked clearly
thelegend Posted December 12, 2007 Posted December 12, 2007 It sounds like you are doing most of the work my friend. I think she may have met another fella that's more appealing right now than you. I'm sorry brother but you may have to just walk away from this one for a while.
Author Aarondreyer Posted December 13, 2007 Author Posted December 13, 2007 Thanks Thelegend, well if you want to know an end to all this, she did meet someone else, although it was one of my best mates...and a woman!? our relationship was getting bad and one of my best mates took advantage of that..my gf says she pulled all the strings, but they are both to blaim..they are both trying to still be my friend, but i just can't have that...i told them that i can't be either of their friends until after they break up this relationship..and that i hope they have a good time Another women..i saw all the signs tho...so Meh..Eff her
thelegend Posted December 13, 2007 Posted December 13, 2007 that's the spirit young fella sorry you had to deal with that. Women can be so selfish at times.
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