Should I go try meet her...?

[moz]

I bumped into a girl at the airport last week, I was going to visit relatives, she was going to visit her boyfriend (of a few months). We hit it off pretty well as we both seemed kinda nervous/ shy people. So while waiting on the flight we decided to spend the delay time together, went for drink and food and chatted for about 4-5 hours. When we got on the plane, she said we may as well sit together again. It was a 2-3 hour flight and we talked the whole way.

 

At the end of the flight we just said goodbye, said it was so nice to meet/ chat and we gave each other a small hug. As I walked away I turned round and she was looking back at me...but I just walked on. I wasn't confident/ quick thinking enough to go back to her or to go give her my number. I've been kicking myself ever since.

 

I came back yesterday, and I know she's flying back on tuesday...here's the thing...would it be weird for me to go meet her when she lands (she told me) and just give her my number? I don't wanna seem like some nut/ stalker by turning up, but on the other hand I have no way of getting in contact with her, and I'd hate to not see her again. Or should I just leave it (esp. as I know she has a boyfriend...)

 

Would you like it if someone turned up to tell you they liked you, or would you be slightly worried by it!

 

Hope you guys can advise!

[brothermartin]

Did she actually tell you to come to the airport to meet her? Are you sure she actually has a boyfriend?

[moz]

Thanks for the reply. No she didn't say to come meet her, she just said when she was coming back on Tuesday during a conversation. At the start of our conversation she mentioned her boyfriend, and said thats who she was going to meet (altho they have not been together long).

 

I was thinking of turning up when her flight arrives, and just saying 'I'd be kicking myself if I didn't do this...but here's my number, call me if you'd like to go for another drink'

 

Would that be strange/ off-putting?

[HarakIgia]

What a neat encounter. I say you go to the airport:) She should be extremely flattered. You can just give her your info and leave it up to her. At least then you've given her an amazing compliment and a great story she'll be able to tell forever. How often do you meet someone that you connect with and they track you down to say "hey, I think you're awesome, here's my info". Keep us posted love to hear how she responds. Good luck:)

[moz]

Thanks HarakIgia. I mean I think she might like me...even a little, as we both decided to hang together. I just want her to know I think she's amazing, give her my number and leave it at that. No pressure, no OTT antics.

 

I just hope (if I go ahead) it seems a nice jesture and in no way creepy or stupid.

[amaysngrace]

I wouldn't think it was creepy. I would think it was cool.

 

I think you should do it or you may end up with regret. Are you from the same town?

[HarakIgia]

Not creepy at all. At least I don't think so. Your intentions will show through. Leave it at that. Stop stressing and let it unfold as it should:) Live life to the fullest!!!! Like you said you don't want to be kicking yourself later. Good luck:)

[moz]

Yeah we're from the same place. I think I'll go for it. I would regret not doing it (just like I've regretted not doing it over the last few days)

 

Thanks for the advise and encouragement guys! I'll keep reading advise (if more is posted) and let you know how I get on!

[HarakIgia]

Awesome! Looking forward to hearing how it goes.

[apeterson]

do it............. let us know how it turns out