XxBacktoBlackXx Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 I am so tempted to contact one of my Exes. Why is this a tempting thing to do? I can understand in certain cases why it would be, but with this guy, I'm better off without him. He treated me terribly. I feel so silly because I sent him a really lame text message a few days ago, but that's the last I have contacted. Ever since he appeared back in my life, I really want to tell him off. I don't know why this situation is so hard for me. I have a boyfriend now that I really care about, but I can't stop thinking about all the hurt this person put me through and how they never apologized to me. Why does it hurt so much? I no longer have feelings for this person. I know people will claim that I must since I'm still hurting, but it's deeper than that. This person couldn't even treat me as a person. That's what hurts. Disrespect hurts regardless of who it comes from and this person dished out a lot of disrespect to me. I don't know why I can't overcome this... :( Link to post Share on other sites
Freddy Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 You have a boyfriend so don't. Do you want to contact him so he can put you down make you feel like you don't mean anything again? Your lucky to have a new guy that treats you right so don't waste the time and energy. Link to post Share on other sites
ninjaturtles Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 Hey there! I understand where you are coming from. I remember whist I was with my ex, I was still angry at the way I had been treated in the past by some one else. I did not even have feelings for this person but I guess I was angry because I wonderd why I took so much crap. The only thing you can do now is try to forget it all.As Freddy said, you are lucky you have a boyfriend who is treating you well. For me, I started giving the guy an attitude.lol.I deleted him from facebook because I felt so angry at the way he treated me. Its all so weird isnt it? Because its not as if I still liked him. Very strange. Anyway, so this guy noticed I deleted him and tried to contact me via IM. I ignored him. I guess he gets the point now. I think what I have concluded is that once I got over him, (especially when I started going out with my EX), I felt I had been too lenient on him by allowing him 'be my friend'. I felt angry when I thought about all the crap I had been through with him etc. I felt he was not worthy to be my friend. Anyway, Bitterness is very healty:o. I would advice you to let it go. I dont know what the situation is with him now, but to be honest I only deleted him after my EX and I broke up. I guess I was angry at the world.lol. Whilst I was with my EX, I didnt care that much although I still got angered anytime I thought about it. So, you are lucky you are with someone now. Forget him and accept that some people are horrid. Next time, I guess we would not allow ourselves to be treated that way. Take it as a lesson learnt and enjoy your new beau:love: Goodluck.xxx Link to post Share on other sites
ninjaturtles Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 Sorry for the typos! Link to post Share on other sites
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