GRITS07 Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 I'm new to the dating schene and boy I'm learning the hard way. I've recently separated, legally that is, but have been separated for about 3 years and just did throw myself into the dating world. I'm 49 years old and I guess I'm way too old fashioned for this junk. How is it a person can date more than one person at the same time? I guess that's where I'm just a little too weird, I guess. I date one person at a time, if it doesn't work, then we go our separate ways, but I only date one guy at a time. Is this too old fashioned? Should I try and make it to the 21st century dating game and just go out with anyone who offers a good time? I thought you should give one person your undivided attention until you get to know each other better to find out if your compatible. Yet, I finding that men want to play the field. I can't do that. Please, dating advise please otherwise, I'm just not going to date at all.
Dynamo Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 I'm new to the dating schene and boy I'm learning the hard way. I've recently separated, legally that is, but have been separated for about 3 years and just did throw myself into the dating world. I'm 49 years old and I guess I'm way too old fashioned for this junk. How is it a person can date more than one person at the same time? I guess that's where I'm just a little too weird, I guess. I date one person at a time, if it doesn't work, then we go our separate ways, but I only date one guy at a time. Is this too old fashioned? Should I try and make it to the 21st century dating game and just go out with anyone who offers a good time? I thought you should give one person your undivided attention until you get to know each other better to find out if your compatible. Yet, I finding that men want to play the field. I can't do that. Please, dating advise please otherwise, I'm just not going to date at all. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable - don't listen to people who claim you need to "get with the times". That's just silly. Personally I have the same beliefs as you (That you should only date one person at a time and give them undivided attention), but a lot of people don't think that way until they decide to be exclusive with one person. Generally they do this to keep options open and see which one they like the best out of the potential lovers. Just keep doing what you are doing, no need to change a tried-and-true method.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Grits , dont try to keep up with the 21st century.. hahah dating more than one guy is a little complicated to me as well.. I always said i dont want to date m,ore than one guy and then fall in love with both and then have to choose who it is that I truely want. But theres nothing wrong with meeting new people and going on a couple of dates. If one of them you feel a little more than the others, then stop seeing them
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