not sure what to call this

[mark982]

hi people,i've recently discovered this site.looking for answers.mine goes back to early 80's. was married to a woman who cheated b/4 we got married.marriage didn't last(8 months),yep she cheated again. this time w/ a uncle,who she later married.(ex wife now my aunt).no problem,moved on with my life. very little contact other than in passing. so a couple yrs back, he ups and dies. now she's dating again and running in the same circles as me. telling everyone what a mean s.o.b. i was. so far i've kept my mouth shut.cause i know what happened,and i sure isn't what she's saying.i've even got her new b/f coming up to me talking crap,and we used to be best buds.i really looking for insight here. i thank you

[Tripper]

Your actions will speak louder than your words. I would simply say to people who confront you "believe what you will, I don't have to prove anything to you".

 

I always live by the rule: Don't wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig likes it.

[Tyra]

We'll, just tell everybody that she's a whore, bottom-line. And to stop approaching you with the bull****!!!!

[Cheery Cherry]

Wow, this woman sounds like a psycho, people who know you will know the truth and you wouldn't have to explain anything. People who are blinded by trying to get in her pants will believe her but only temporarily. She's obviously in a bad place (spiritually) so she's looking to make you look bad so people won't pay too much attention to her flaws. Just be yourself and don't let stuff like that bother you or at least don't let her see that it bothers you. In the end, she'll be the one left with all the problems.

[mark982]

yes,she is nuts(as far as i'm consirned),only thing she has a line of shi$,a mile long,you ever notice most nutty people do?christ i've even had her kids,come up to me(why me),and tell me of all the men that she's had,and their not impressed at all.hell i nnever bothered her in all these yrs. why now? hell even showed up at mothers funeral.