benniebru Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 ok heres what happened. my girlfriend of just over 3 years decided to break up with me today. my hometown is currently 2 hours away from her hometown but i live in her hometown. but for the weekend i went back to my hometown to go deer hunting, like ive done since she has met me. then today while im out in the middle of the woods i get a txt message saying "im done with you, you dont care about me" i work mon-fri and i go back to my hometown maybe once every two months and prob 3 weekends in dec (to hunt). i dont go to the bars im always home if im not at work. but lately my ex has not been coming over as much and has not really wanted to talk to me on the phone. but noting way out of the norm. when i talked to her this weekend she seemed more upset that the fact that i dident get all worked up when she broke it off rather than the fact that it is over. it took a while to set in, i finally broke down after i met her at a gas station and she gave me my keys to my apartment once she got in her car and left i broke down and have been a mess since. this has been the longest relationship that i ever have been in. i live in this city with no real close friends (all my college buddies are gone) and nobody to really talk to thats why i am getting this off my chest here. if i did something to deserve this i would know but i cannot figure out what happened and its driving me crazy, this just came out of left field and to get this bomb dropped on you when ur holding a 300 mag rifle is not a great thing either. i just feel really lonely right now with nobody to really turn to. and when she gave me my house keys today there was a little note with them and like a retard i read the note it totally devastated me nothing bad just talking about what a great person i am and all this that just tore me apart like it is not just writing about it.
sevendaysoflonely Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Hey buddy, I don't have much to offer since I'm going through a similar situation. Perhaps that's some sort of comfort? There are others out there who are going through the same (or worse)... I was dumped by my boyfriend out of the blue too and I feel like such a fool thinking that everything was going fine... maybe he was just a good actor? It does get better in time, the first week is the worst, and you feel like everything in the world just collapsed and nothing matters anymore. That's what I felt anyway. My heart felt like it was torn into pieces and I was walking around with something crushing it all the time.. Everyone goes through it, she meant the world to you, but unless it was just a rash decision on her part.. there's nothing much you can do but cope now. Hold yourself together. I will repeat some things my friend told me: Yes you had good times with her, but you will have good times too in the future. Everything happens for a reason... Cheer up! Read up on other people's threads because there're lots of encouraging words around here.
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