joel Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 i now this guy right, classmate but hes friendly like with every girl always saying hello to them, and talking to them, smiling too. he does this with like 5 other girls and me too. he started askin me what other classes i was goin to take, how i was doin in the course, said what i do on the weekend, and after a few chats he asked for my msn addy"can i have ur msn addy, we can chat sometime -he brings out his notepad" he also did this with the oother girls too. he always sayin hello to these certain girls, walking with em, how their weekends was and .... small talk stuff he goes up to these girls right after class after the class is finishes and goes and start talking to them.hi how are you, how are u doin in the course, my name is Sam what is urs, talks about the courses he takes .. typical small talk , but he does it with other girls too, oh ya and i see him checking out girls too-with the corner of his eye. when i was talking with him and walking along he looks at me first to see if i am looking at what he is eyeing and then he check out these other girls who are at another distant, and he sometimes has this smirk kind of smile. i seen him checking other girls butts too as they walk pass him in the hallway ok the question is =-is he a player, what is the guy -a player, jsut freindly, i see him turning around as girls pass by check out their butts, and he says something in his mouth like "umm ya" with this wicked weird smile. he looks both ways to make sure no one is seeing before he does it, and if the one time i was with him he checked otu this girl with the corner of his eye, he first sees my eyes first then he does the checking out-sneaky hes always saying hello to me wwhen he sees me, and says what u did last week, and if u studied yet. he told me he was in another college before taking computers but didn't like what he was taking...etc stuff about himself.... and his part time job how slow it is and that he takes extra minutes for breaks ehhe while the class we had togther, everyone left , and he waited outside class for me, walked me outside the school. just small talking , he said he could borrow the text for the course i was taking since he took that course before alredy. he told me to return the text back to the book store, and htat he'll lend his to me. hes alwasy smiling and saying hello to me, and i see him doing this to other girls too. always trying and talking to other girls. not as much to guys, but he does talk to guys is this guy playerish he like ah my name is Derick ah ur in my class i see u around what is ur name. trying to make small talk, walk me out of the class or school, have a good weeked, ask what my hobbies and what i do for fun...etc
Green Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Well you in canada so when you say college Im not sure if you're of HS age or older. You sound young and you also sound like you may be interested in this guy wether you admitted it or not. Theres not enough information to tell if he's a player or not. Even if he is flirting with all these girls nothings wrong with that as long as hes not in an exclusive relationship so that wouldnt make him a player by my definition. If you like this guy don't be to judgmental and cold toward him is my advice he'll go after a friendlier girl if you know what i mean
Dynamo Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Doesn't really sound like a player.. He's just checking out other girls. Everyone is guilty of checking out the opposite sex, some just do it more then others.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 it sounds like he is just really friendly and loves women.. I know a lot of guys who love just being around a woman, talking to them, shopping with them. only because they feel like they dont do well with male friends, It just sounds like he is a very talkative guy who flirts from time to time. I wouldnt take him serious. It seems more like a guy frioend you can be comfortable with
Blue Eyed Brain Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Sorry, but I won't put too much emphasis on him. He doesn't seem to take himself seriously nor does he sound like he thinks highly of women, other than putting them in his spank bank. He's frivioulus and forgetable. Let someone else be concerned with him. Check out the quiet guy in the corner, albeit he's much more interesting, more humane towards women and will not wonder his eye on you while in convo.
Dynamo Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Sorry, but I won't put too much emphasis on him. He doesn't seem to take himself seriously nor does he sound like he thinks highly of women, other than putting them in his spank bank. He's frivioulus and forgetable. Let someone else be concerned with him. Check out the quiet guy in the corner, albeit he's much more interesting, more humane towards women and will not wonder his eye on you while in convo. Here here!
D-Lish Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 Always trust your gut. If it feels like he might be a player- don't ignore your initial reaction. I did date someone for a while who was a bit like that. He even liked to brag to me about how many women wanted him, how in demand he was.... and then he would go out of his way to be OVERLY friendly with females in my presence, clearly looking for a reaction from me. Well, what I realized was that this guy really wasn't a player.... he was really, really insecure. The more he talked about other women wanting him, the more I realized I had nothing to worry about. I eventually got tired of his constant bantering and had to let him go.
desertguy Posted December 10, 2007 Posted December 10, 2007 I'm a guy and these "player" types, I kind of feel sorry for. If you have to look at every girl you come in contact with, and try your spiel on them, then you're most likely pretty insecure, and overcompensating. He may vehemently deny it, but he needs to feel validation from women. This is sad. It's much better to be your own person, expand your life, live a full life, get confidence in whatever way works for you, and don't even think about your "game" with women. Be a little selfish and think about yourself, do things you enjoy, expand your horizons, and often you just tend to meet women, often with more in common with you than this "meat market" scatter shot approach.
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