Diamond1 Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 me and my ex broke up a month ago, we had been dating for over a year and were each others first loves. he took me by suprise when he broke up with me he said his feelings changed a bit because he was putting so much time into our relationship he was losing friendships with other ppl and he wasnt giving me as much of himself as he used to. i miss him so much i think about him everyday i tried the NC thing for about 2 weeks and a few days ago i broke it and sent him a msg. we msgd each other back and forth all week, the topic wasnt too deep but we were still talking back and forth. i told him i would explain something to him but it was a long story (too long to type) and i would call him instead. and now im supposed to be calling him this weekend but i have no idea wat to say....i havent spoke on the phone with him since our break up....i kno i'll tell him the story and i guess after that just talk on the phone about....? idk it makes me nervous because i love him with all my heart and i really dont kno if theres anything i can do to bring him back....or say perhaps? i sent him an email telling him simply that i understand his feelings have changed but mine havent and i jus wanted him to know that. he said thanks for letting me know. then i wrote back and asked him how he felt about wat i said a few days before but i wasnt putting pressure on him cuz if he didnt want me to kno then its okay. and he never replied.....i really wanna ask wats up with that but that would be contradicting myself because i already told him he didnt have to tell me anything if he didnt want to. i just dont know how to approach him. this break up has had me go through so many emotions and i need to know if im the only one wanting to get back together. not right away but after we build us back up.....how should i go about this? what should i say to him?
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