becky6699 Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 I dated Mr Right for the past 2 months. And I say Mr Right because he was right for ME. Not perfect, just good for me, for my kid, for my life. I've been out of the dating scene for 3 years and then he came along and completed so many things, filled so many voids. We were moving pretty fast and things were good, comfortable, easy, we had all the bases covered. Until last week. He told me that he still had feelings for his ex, and they've been broken up for a year now. We had talked about their relationship before and he assured me he was past it all, after all it'd been a year. He said he can't in good conscience be with me when he wasn't able to give me his whole heart. He says he still loves me, misses me terribly, hates losing me, but can't do this without feeling conflict within himself for hurting me and for not being able to give me his all. I want to scream at him that he needs to look at what is front of him instead of looking behind him. I feel like I need to convinve him that it's all right to be with me, work on 'us' while dealing with his other emotions. I need help as to how to deal with this! Do I just let him walk away from what we had started, something really good and special, or do I keep trying to fight for him? I feel like I'm fighting a ghost though. ( FYI, he has no intention of getting back with her ever, he just has hang ups with her emotionally)
Krytie TV Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 Do I just let him walk away from what we had started, something really good and special Only if you have an ounce of pride in yourself. Otherwise, you will always have been his begrudged second choice. How hot is that?
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