To the guys, what could this mean?

[bandgeek0203]

Hi, without giving all the details, if a guy has asked you out three times, says he really likes you, but then starts ignoring you, what could that mean? When I asked him about it, he said that I should call him. When I did, he ignored me. Should I just move on?

I really really like him, but I think I might be wasting my time if he is just going to ignore me.

Isn't it true that if he really did like me he would call me? It's not like he's seeing somebody else.

What does it mean when a guy gives the silent treatment?

[Gyjin]

if a guy has asked you out three times, says he really likes you, but then starts ignoring you, what could that mean? When I asked him about it, he said that I should call him. When I did, he ignored me. Should I just move on?

I really really like him, but I think I might be wasting my time if he is just going to ignore me.

Isn't it true that if he really did like me he would call me? It's not like he's seeing somebody else.

What does it mean when a guy gives the silent treatment?

 

He asked you out three times? I assume if he had to ask you out 3 times you said no every time? or do you mean you went out with him 3 times?

f you said no 3 times why would he continue to pursue? I would personally have walked away after the first, maybe second, rejection. I would feel someone that turned me down but continued to want to talk/flirt is playing games and or using me to stroke her ego. Men HATE games (except beer pong or Halo 3 those games rock:D). I won't be any part of the games or a woman that insists on playing them.

If, however, you meant you have gone out on three dates and he has cut off communication I'd say either he's lost interest or he's playing games (I'll admit guys play games too, not as often and definitely not as well). In that case cut him and find someone that does not play games.

[bandgeek0203]

i meant that we had gone out three times. hmmm that's really frustrating, i didn't know guys played games.

ok, i guess you're right, i should cut him off. it just hurts my feelings a little though.

[Sunblast]

LOL he got annoyed cause you kept turning him down, DUH

[Trimmer]

LOL he got annoyed cause you kept turning him down, DUH

did you read her followup post in this thread?

 

i meant that we had gone out three times....

[Dynamo]

Perhaps he lost interest in you? I mean, not to come off as rude or anything, but it happens. Maybe you weren't what he thought you were.

[MystifiedByMen]

Maybe he just wanted sex and didn't get it as soon as he wanted so he was OUT! SOME, not ALLl guys are like that.

[littlepiggy1]

He either has lost interest in you or he's pretending to have lost interest in you in the hopes that you will become more attracted to him. Either way, move on.

[Star Gazer]

He may be tired of putting all the effort into planning dates and such. You said you called him and he ignored you - can you elaborate on that? When did you call, what did you say? Have you seen or spoken to him since the call?

[bandgeek0203]

i didn't call him, i texted him about getting together

[brothermartin]

Maybe he is playing games. Why not? Women do it to us.

[mindsurfer]

A girl turned me down the first time i asked her out by giving me some reason which I felt was a little lame. But, I knew she was interested in me and asked her out again. She gave me another reason (she said the reasons were genuine both the times and in hindsight I actually believe her) and I sent out signals that made her understand that I would never ask her out again. So, we met the second time but she came a little late as she had to drop whatever she was doing just to able to meet me.

If she had turned me down then, I would have never asked her out again.. Its as simple as that..

[bandgeek0203]

no, we we went out three times. i accepted the invitations. anyone else??