tomwiz Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 Hey there...so a little over a month ago I met this great gal. Things have been going great so far....we've been out about 8 or 9 times. Including everyday from wednesday-sunday this week. Talk on the phone everyday, usually a couple of times a day. Have been "intimate". Basically things are going well at this point, we've both agreed to be exclusive. She just keeps telling me how happy she is with me and that she hasnt felt this way in a while, and is waiting for something awful to come out about me because as of right now I'm too perfect for her. Well this upcoming saturday, she is going to a work christmas party with a friend of hers, she even took the time to introduce me to this guy so I would know there was nothing there. However last night while talking on the phone she said something along the lines of "I let him know he better not try any funny stuff or my....umm....will kick his ass" (its kind of a running joke, I'm a really calm unaggressive sort of guy however I am a semi professional fighter). She then said that she doesn't like to make assumptions about stuff like that until a conversation has occured because she has been burned on that before (assuming that they were together). Was she basically baiting me to agree/step up?
Blue Eyed Brain Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 I don't think so. I think she is "feeling out the relationship." Everything is so new that you're both waiting for a foot to fall. It's natural. She's asking you questions that would imply commitment (on a small level) and you're feeling it out, does she want me to kick everyone ass who comes near her. Stop thinking and just enjoy. The shoe will drop and you'll both find out that your not perfect, but finding out if you are perfect together is the best part!
EYECANDY000 Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 sounds like she was probing you to step up and ask her main squeeze lol.. she definately was dropping a hint or two
polywog Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 I don't think so. I think she is "feeling out the relationship." Everything is so new that you're both waiting for a foot to fall. It's natural. She's asking you questions that would imply commitment (on a small level) and you're feeling it out, does she want me to kick everyone ass who comes near her. Stop thinking and just enjoy. The shoe will drop and you'll both find out that your not perfect, but finding out if you are perfect together is the best part! So true! The beginning of relationships is so scary.... you have all these feelings, and hope that the other feels the same. Sounds like she is both "feeling you out" and proving to you that there are other guys out there interested.... just in case, or to prove her self worth. I've certainly been on both sides. Like Blue Eyed said, just relax and enjoy, and go with the flow.
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