majesty00 Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 I met this great girl, and we hit off well as friends and would hang out in larger groups. Then we went out a few times on our own. We had a great time, and i definitely thought we had chemistry. After our last date, i texted her that i had a good time and she said me too!!! then nothing... zip... nada: 2 voice mails and no reply and an email with no reply. what gives? An utter and complete 180! This girl is so sweet and is out of character for her... Any thoughts or suggestions?
Minni Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 It could be anything. I went on a couple dates w/a guy & he left me a message & sent me a text, but I didn't reply because I had the flu. I could have made the effort, but I really wasn't into him, so I blew it off. I eventually called him & told him I wasn't into him. She could be sick & really can't call. She could be crazy busy at work, family problems? Maybe she's just stressed and needs her own quiet time. WAIT. You don't want to seem "desperate." I would wait at least 3 days, then send her a text or email or message (choose 1!) and say something like you want to make sure she gets this message. You'd like to go out again, but if she's not into it, to let you know - and that you enjoyed her company on a friendship level too. Good luck!
Racquel Colette Posted December 6, 2007 Posted December 6, 2007 She's just not that into you. Sorry, but it's life. Move on.
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