broke up with girlfriend and unsure how to figure what i want out

[indohouze]

Ok heres the story, my gf has this person she knows who she doesn't really like and told me to add her on msn 1 day n speak 2 her apparently because this girl makes up alot of crap. I chose not 2 and then she wanted me about a week ago to ring her and cause some havoc with her but i didn't. Then yesterday morning i signed in 2 check my emails n such then saw her on msn and i started writing some stuff towards her that was pretty bad. ANyways last night i find out she is fully pissed off with me and it turns out that the chick is her friends sister!!!! She failed to mention it to me. SO now she has broke up with me and i don't know what to do to try speak with her because she cuts me off and doesn't even wanna listen to my end of the story. Then when she sez are you blaming me she sez well i don't f***** care.

 

So i know this isn't much insight into the full circumstance but can someone out their explain to me what the hell should i be thinking? So what have i done wrong exactly considering she did want me to do this earlier. She did also mention to me on monday she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me because she didn't have the time but when i was with her on tuesday she said it was a mistake and she should have never said it. Then last night she just was really cold n snappy and sed its over. So much confusion

[indohouze]

no help at all?

[OverNow]

Hmm..I'm not sure I really understand what happened. Can you clarify it?

 

In the meantime, I would suggest that you don't try too hard to explain your situation, cause it might be pushing your ex away.

 

I'll try to help with your situation once I understand what happened.

[BlueEyedSarah]

Your girlfriend failed to mention who this girl is yet you failed to ask who this girl is that she wants you to add. You should not have gone online and snapped at this girl without knowing the full story, you only hear what this girl is capable of though your girlfriend. Why was it so important that you talk to this girl anyway? Its your girlfriends situation not yours to begin with. I think you should stop contacting your girlfriend, let her cool off and let her contact you. Don't worry about it now, whats done is done. All you can do is learn from your mistakes.