usababe Posted December 5, 2007 Posted December 5, 2007 Guys would you only stay in contact with a girl you've gone on a date with if you had interest in her? We didn't sleep together or anything and had a nice time on our date but he sort of blew me off by saying he was really sorry that he was finding it really difficult as he hasn't dated anyone since his ex a year ago and that I'm really great it's him that's wrong but that he does like me (Now I know he isn't seeing anyone else as I know his friends and I see him out every weekend) Yet he texts me regularly, it's playing with my head a bit as I know I would only stay in contact if I liked the person. I don't think it's a sex thing as I made it quite obvious I wasn't gonna take things further than a kiss at the beginning. Any ideas guys?
lovedango Posted December 5, 2007 Posted December 5, 2007 It is very possible he likes you, but from what I see it looks like he could just be in limbo, very similar to myself in my current situation. Right now there is this girl, we have been on a couple dates but I have not slept with her. I know she is just dying to know if I want to turn things into a relationship, and she can tell I don't. She is right that I don't and the reason is that I just don't feel the connection, but not because of her, because of everything else that is going on in my life. Bottom line is that I keep in touch with her because I DO like her, I am just not ready to make that step, but in time, assuming she doesn't find someone else, it is likely that I might make that step. Time could mean a month or so, or just a week, nobody knows. The important thing for you to remember is to continue to be yourself and don't try and pressure him too much. By being yourself you are reminding him of why he likes you and will more likely than not feed his attraction to you. If you bug him, or otherwise pressure him, you might do the opposite. That is just my two cents on the situation. - Anthony
Author usababe Posted December 5, 2007 Author Posted December 5, 2007 Thanks for your advice, that makes sense. Anyone other guys out there have an opinion?
Author usababe Posted December 6, 2007 Author Posted December 6, 2007 bump! guys i need more advice if anyone can help me out
mindsurfer Posted December 7, 2007 Posted December 7, 2007 I think he needs some more time to get over his ex. I am sure he likes you coz he texts you regularly. I wouldnt text a girl regularly unless I like her. If you really like this guy, I would say give him some more time and play it cool. Who knows, he might just want to friends with you at this point in time and take things slow. But, friendship is the first step towards most romantic relationships.
Author usababe Posted December 7, 2007 Author Posted December 7, 2007 That's true thanks, I think I'll just go with the flow and see what happens. He is a good guy so I know he isn't intentionally messing me around.
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