smudgesimonsmith Posted December 5, 2007 Posted December 5, 2007 me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. the relationship was very strong and we both adored each other. 4 months ago though she had to go to usa to go to university and i had to go to afghanistan. all through the 4 months we have kept each other going and even though there is distance the love was strong. then two days ago, she called and broke it off. even though she is due home in two weeks!! we had argued a few times and i had questioned her over some pictures in which she was cuddlying men, but i didnt expect this! she says that she cant deal with a long distance relationship and that she didnt like the recent arguing. also 3 months ago i stupidly split with her and then sorted it out the next day. she says she has never recovered from that. it seems like quite a few things have built up into a barrier against me. i know she loves me, and i am sure she wouldnt cheat, so i cant understand why she never waited until she got home to sort it out!! i still feel there is a chance there, i have been down the pleadin and begging road already, and even though she is strong minded i feel sometimes she is almost questioning herself on what she wants. what im after is advice on whether you think i can sort this out and ways to win her back. my current plan is not talkin at all, makin it seem like i have accepted it and i have girls leaving messages on my facebook asking me to go out to dinner. its all innocent though, i know these girls and am getting them to leave the messages. i hoping that she will see them asking me out, then realise im not talking to her and put two and two together and think im meeting already. if there is anything left, that should cause enough jealousy for her to want me back. thanks for listening
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