mikesinclair Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 Hi all i will make this short, but i would appreciate if anyone can relate to what is happening to my head at the moment my ex finished with my 5 weeks ago now, we havent seen each other, both have moved back to our home countries.. I did prob what all dumpees do at the start and was calling her and asking her to give it another go, all the usual stuff, i know this was wrong, and i have have changed... anyway, fastfwd to now, well last week and i have received 3 txt messages and two emails, asking how am i doing, did i get a certain job, then they become, i thought we were going to be friends, i want to know how u are doing. the txt messages i have ignored, A, because she sent them to my UK number i am in spain again ( she still thinks i am in the UK ) so i can say i dont have my phone with me. the emails she asked had i changed my number.. i did reply to the emails but very briefly and didnt let her know what, where or how i was doing, just answered a couple of questions regarding the car and asked how she was anyway the point to this rant, is NOW i feel as tho i could win her back and since the contact i have dreamt of her, thoughts coming back all the time its like day one all over.. and i dont know why im playing a game with her, why didnt i just tell her i was back in Spain ? answer, cos i think if she knows i am being succesful in london she will come over there.... anyway, i feel better getting that bit of my chest, i guess i will wait and see what she says in the reply... prob she is doin well and met another guy. well i guess thats closure.. trouble is, i have had two offers to go out on a date and i refused, cos i didnt want to come accross as rude to them or that i would bore them with my ex...lol im a sucker. merry xmas all x
Blue Eyed Brain Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 Not a sucker. Your a cool guy. Break-ups are never easy and it stinks. But always know that the times you had together are truly yours and hers. No-one can take those memories away. They will hurt less as times goes by (singing in the background). Also, do what's in your heart when it comes to responding to her, taking care of yourself and dating others.
MrMichael Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 wow, I am Grateful for this website, there are ALOT of people dealing with the same thing as me. I got texted too, last week, it was thanksgiving here in the US, and she is the only one w/ my #, since i had it changed. she texted 2X, problem is I dont know what texts said becase phone is out of minutes, I got dumped and am not the dumper, and she too, met another guy, I think maybe she expected me to wish her happy thanksgiving, as we DID talk on halloween(no new boyfriend then), I have not replied back or e mailed.... so I am in your dilema, to the degree of, she ended it, she met someone else, why text me now? dont feel lame dude, I did what you did, i begged her at the initial end to give it another go and ask why it was over......seems alot of people both Male and Female on the dumped end are going thru this lately
MacgyverThis Posted December 5, 2007 Posted December 5, 2007 Does she only want you if she thinks youare sucessful?
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