tall dark and handsome

[lykyamy00]

so there's this guy and i've never been more physically attracted to anyone in my entire life. he's the epitome of tall dark and handsome in my opinion. he's been in a few of my classes since last year and i've had this crush on him like crazy even while i was dating other people i still had a crush on him. he's so sweet and i really think that we would just have amazing chemistry... we have hooked up before.

 

and here's the deal.

 

this weekend we had science prom (yes i'm a science geek and so is he and most of my other friends) and he took pictures with everyone but made sure he came over to me and asked me for one of us together. now me being me i was watching while he was taking picture with other girls and he wrapped both his arms around my waist which he didnt do to any other girl. later on that night after prom moved to another bar and he got there after i did. so he was saying hi to people and of course i was watching out of the corner of my eye. he was hugging people and being like ooo i love you to everyone cuz i guess when you are drunk you love everyone, i know i do. so then he gives me a hug, picks me up and says in my ear loud enough for only me to hear 'you know i love you the most' and omggg i practically died.

 

thennnnn later on we were dancing and after a few minutes he was like omg you are too sexy right now and walked away... was this like i just want you to leave me alone orr like i'm gonna get a hard on in the bar if i dont walk away? idk i was a little confused.

 

so what do you think? is this something i should persue? i mean i have been hearing from some of his best friends that between bars he hooked up with someone but hooking up can mean anything from making out to sex so i really dont know what that means. but those things he says to me and just little things confuse me and idk how to interpret them. and we have classes together now and basically i see him every day and we talk and its good except that i probably act like an idiot becuase i like him... so what do i do? should i tell him that i am like magnetically attracted to him or was he just looking for someone to hook up with? should i persue this? because i want more than hook ups withhim.. i want the relationship though idk what he wants.

[Monrose]

I think you should wait and see what happens. If he likes you the best, he'll make a real move.

[Grrlish]

He sounds like a flirt...in a nice way. He doesn't seem malicious about it, is what I mean.

 

I agree with Monrose; if he's interested, he'll make a 'real move', like asking for your number or asking you on a date.

 

Or, if you're interested, ask him to lunch or something easy like that. "Wanna go grab a bite at the snack shack between classes?"

 

I think the little move on the dance floor could be either what you said (Oops, we're standing too close for 'comfort') or a little game to see if you'll pursue him.

 

If it's the latter, don't let ego get in the way. Ask him out, or do something to indicate interest. See if/how he responds.

 

 

Oooh, wait a second...I just re-read and saw that you two have hooked up before. Aww, he's a nice guy but probably not looking for anything serious, otherwise he'd be pursuing you. On the other hand, spending a little time together here and there (not always 'hooking up') might start a spark.

 

But go in with eyes open. Again, he doesn't sound malicious. He's not lying to you or anyone, right? He didn't make any promises to you when you hooked up, right?

 

We're all adults, and 'hooking up' without knowing the other person's intent ahead of time means that we have to assume that the intent was, well, to have a good time.