lily.lane Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 First off Id just like to say Ive only had one boyfriend and he did all the "leading" so Im still very shy when it comes to boys, although I am an outgoing person in general. One night this guy and I flirted while tipsy. Hes never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I became friends with him last year and had a thing for him. he def. showed interest in being my friend, but this year we have drifted apart and I didnt do anything about it because he has some gay tendencies, people joke alot that he is just in denial which is a possibility. We did flirt and some (including ones who didn’t know about my crush) said I think he likes you and such. The only person there who knew about my crush last year encouraged it, he kept trying to get us to hold hands and asked me if I liked him in front of him. (i didnt answer) I almost told this guy everything. After the party I went to his room (next door) and said “Lets talk” I think he understood I meant seriously, but chickened out and left. He went “what happened” and then left me 2 voicemails one saying “Hope you got back to your room OK Ill IM you tomorrow” and he did right away the next morning. Hes never imed/called. Even though everyone was like "he likes you hes just chicken" I still didnt think he did. He didnt do anything after that but I never expected him to with him being so inexperienced. My one friend there that night who encouraged it told him Ive liked him since last year (he did this without asking me) He was just trying to play matchmaker. He told me “he said he doesn’t have feelings for you a 1000 people meddling didn’t help” and apologized, although apparently this guy would like to be friends. we weren’t by any means close before. Im a bit mad at this group of people for doing all this and I dont really hang out with them anymore and the guy who told me has been acting funny towards me. So I never see this guy anymore except for in passing where he says hi still. Two times when he has said hi, I haven’t been doing it to be mean, but I just don’t say hi outloud back. Im usually walking with other people and I look at him so its not like im ignoring him completely- I didn’t even think he’d notice. But the other day he asked my good friend randomly why when he says hi I don’t respond back so he did apparently notice. He then later a couple of days asked him “is she acting weird around you?” so hes clueless. I noticed today when my friend and I presented in front of the class he was looking away off in another direction spacing out. I just thought it was weird because when other people were presenting he focused his attention on them like you’re suppose to. I know you’ll say ask him, but things are so awkward now and I don’t see him a lot anyway. He also kinda tends to be catty (Ive heard him talk about people and be nice to their face so Im not sure if he'd tell me the truth) Im kinda wondering why he did all that stuff that one night and left me those messages- he was not really that drunk at all and everyone has told me he doesn’t even flirt back with girls when hes intoxicated. (I think that may be why people thought he liked me) Anyway, if you cant tell I dont like him anymore (hes a bit too immature for me, I am sorta dating someone else right now anyway) Im just asking what people think because I have NEVER come across a guy who acts this weird and Ive met a lot of guys. It has been bugging me. Did he just enjoy my attention or was he just playing with me? Thats what it seems like but hes a nice guy.
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