Lookn4love Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 I have met this man on a web site called hot or not, we sent several messages back and forth then he asked to meet me and i have agreed to, well we met on friday night, he was also going to go out with his friends since he was leaving for iraq on sunday, went 2 rubys tuesdays had 2 drinks, we sat and talked and talked, i asked him what was on his mind and he said i want to know whats on yours, i said nothing, then we got to talking again, the bill came and i picked it up to see how much my half was, cause i didnt think it was a date, i offered to pay my half and he said no hes got it, he then said lets go to my house, i said wtf, i am not like that, he said i just want to lay with you and cuddle, i am thinking to myself yeah right he wants some, he said if i wanted some i could be getting some right now, so then i started thinking he didnt want my money cause he thought since he paid for my drinks that i owe him something, i again tried to give him the money and he wouldnt take it, he said i dont owe him anything, after that we walked outside, he was cold so i joking said let me walk you to your truck, while by his truck we talked somemore, i again tried to give him the money cause i didnt want to feel as if i owed him anything he still wouldnt take it said i didnt owe him nothing,then he said he had to get going, and said let me walk you to your car, which was parked right next door lol, well he walked me to the car and even opend the door, gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and said drive safe, while at my car i put the money in his hand and told him to please take it he said i woudnt feel right taking your money but after a few mins he took it anyway so what i am persuming is that he took the money cause he knew he wasnt going to get any sex, i tought he would of called texted me or emailed me something since he was leaving on sunday for iraq, but i havent heard from him since, so now is his upset or mad cause i didnt give in to him? He told me he was enjoying himself and if he wanted to leave he could of left after he finished his wings and beer but he chose to stay. maybe he chose to stay cause he thought he was going to get some. I had a good time with him, but afraid that all he wanted was sex, do you think i am right or wrong?
tanbark813 Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 Well he was definitely interested in getting laid but that's not surprising given it was a date two days before he got shipped to Iraq. while at my car i put the money in his hand and told him to please take it he said i woudnt feel right taking your money but after a few mins he took it anyway so what i am persuming is that he took the money cause he knew he wasnt going to get any sex No, I doubt it. I'm guessing he took it to shut you up about it since you kept insisting. As for not hearing from him, I would imagine that's because of, you know, that whole war thing they have going on over there.
Lovegod Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 I'll give you credit for not continuing to take advantage of the dude's generousity. Lots of guys out there are programmed to recieve a sexual "thank you" for doing something nice. They don't realize it's probably the worst way to make someone attracted to you, and they've been watching too many Disney movies. Man, I've been using that Disney reference a lot today. This is like the third or fourth thread :S
Krytie TV Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 I just truly don't understand why it matters to you. You held your ground. He's being deployed, which isn't just a weekend getaway. What does it matter? He's gone now.
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