bandgeek0203 Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 Without giving too many details, I'd been seeing this guy for about 1.5 months (we really only went on 3 dates). All the dates had been initiated by him. All the sudden he started giving me the silent treatment. He apologized and explained that he thought I wasn't interested. Then he said he'd like to go out again and that I should "call him." I really do have feelings for him and want it to work so I texted him,but he ignored me. What does this mean? Is he just not that into me? Why would he suggest that and then ignore me?
Dynamo Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 Without giving too many details, I'd been seeing this guy for about 1.5 months (we really only went on 3 dates). All the dates had been initiated by him. All the sudden he started giving me the silent treatment. He apologized and explained that he thought I wasn't interested. Then he said he'd like to go out again and that I should "call him." I really do have feelings for him and want it to work so I texted him,but he ignored me. What does this mean? Is he just not that into me? Why would he suggest that and then ignore me? I think text messages are a bad, impractical way of setting up plans for something. He might have been busy - maybe his phone was off. Maybe his phone wasn't on him. There are a billion possibilities. The best way to set something up is in person, face-to-face. Phone is great as well. But text-messaging.. Just too many variables can come into play, in my opinion. Not trying to say he isn't ignoring you, that very well is a possibility. But try giving him a call or seeing him in-person before jumping to conclusions that he's not interested
Author bandgeek0203 Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 there's no way he didn't get my text...i just find it very, very hard to believe.
Dynamo Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 there's no way he didn't get my text...i just find it very, very hard to believe. How long has it been since the initial text? Did you send any more or try calling him?
EYECANDY000 Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 It sounds like he is tired of initiating things and if you are truely interested in him then you would make the effort to call and plan an outing. You may seem like you are really interested but you have your guards up, and he may be interpreting it as not interested . If he is ignoring your text , depending on how many days its been, it may be hes really busy, something is going on in his life, or he has moved on. I would give him a call and leave a message to let him know you look forward to hearing back from him. If he still dont respond back, Move on!
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