Author Summer_guy_uk Posted January 13, 2008 Author Posted January 13, 2008 Rather she come and got it herself, save me the energy. Boxing it up is doing her a favour.
SorrowfulChick Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 Any updates on this? I'm going through somethign similar myself.
Author Summer_guy_uk Posted January 18, 2008 Author Posted January 18, 2008 Been dating and keeping busy, got a job and I'm starting to look the betetr side of sexy after all this training. Bumped into the ex a few tiems and kept it brief, she always seems really excited to see me but I'm keeping it low key for now. Not sure what to do about valentines day though.
Author Summer_guy_uk Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 Hey guys, quick update: It's been 2 months now, and I think I moved on to quickly. We've had quite a few encounters and last week she suggested drinks and heading back to my place. We got back to mine watched part of a movie then made out on the bed. I walked her home and I asked her where were at with things and she said she still needs time to catch up with me (concerning our careers/happiness). So i get a phonecall the next day and she says sorry for last night she didnt mean to make the wrong impression and she regretted kissing me and telling me she loved me etc. I basically told her thats fine I wasnt really expecting us to get back together and then left it at that. She's texted a few times since but i'm ignoring her now, I havent really given her a chance to miss me as she sees me every week just about so I'll take 4/5 weeks off from her, maybe more. I won't be sending her anything on valentines day either.
NickP Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 So u're going NC? sry 2 say tis dude, but frm tat encounter, it sounds a bit like she's using u for comfort. gd job at deciding to ignore her now, etc. she needs to realise she can't have u when she wants and discard u when she doesn't. nick
Author Summer_guy_uk Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 Hopefully 1 month will be long enough, i can easily keep myself occupied that long as i have training to do in my new job. Means I'll miss valentines day but thats her problem not mine now. Either that or she'll find soneone else, that'd be hard but that's the way these things work out sometimes.
Author Summer_guy_uk Posted February 9, 2008 Author Posted February 9, 2008 Went clothes shopping, took her for a drink to thank her. She says shes got a date with some guy from work. So you know, fu*k her tbh. I ain't getting stringed along. She says it's just a friendly thing and she's not interested in the guy, only as a friend but I know the guy fancies her, he used to pinch her ass at work etc back when I was still with her but back then i didnt take threats all that seriously. So just gonna go NC and basically take the fu*k it mentality now. Thanks everyone for your help with this, maybe next time I wont make so many mistakes in the first place. Thanks again everyone.
82knightrider Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 So you know, fu*k her tbh. yeah,screw her!
prisonbreak Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 "If you want to make God laugh, just tell Him your plans." I love that quote! You never know...maybe God has a different plan for you, be open to other possibilities also. But good luck!
Roller EastCoaster Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I like your post because let's all face it, for a minute after the break up we all make some kind of plan of action to get 'em back even if we don't really know whether we REALLY want them back. I myself had a very specific plan it which had elements of letting her see that I was dating others and yet still keen on her. But I have abandoned it and never put into action because there really is no use for it. The decision was made so now its time to move on without any contact so that the dust can settle. And actually time has proven she was full of lies and deceit , now she has to deal with that not me...
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