BlueEyedSarah Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Ok so many of you may have read other posts about me liking a friend of mine who I have known for 4 years, he lives in Canada. From March - August I visited Canada for 6 month vacation, he let me stay at he's house, I slept in guest room of course! I basically kept my distance from him when I came back, like others on here suggested to not talk to him as much, needed to heal myself as I was expecting 'something' to happen when I went over there to visit for 6 months, recently about 2/3 months ago he has been expressing strong feelings for me, telling me he has felt them since the first time he met me 4 years ago (nice that he tells me now rather whan when I was over there!). He has been saying he would like me to live with him, he will help me find a job over there in Canada and 'we can make it work; between us. I would be lying if I say I dont feel strongly for him, I have for 4 years! I have always felt as though this is a guy I could spend my life with, we are very close friends with each other, pretty much best friends. I'm worried of so many things, my mind has a headache everyday thinking about it and whats going to happen. My mind is in a large buzz right now I can't even think straight! I don't know what to do or what the heck is going on. When I talk to him about whats on my mind (the worrys) he says he loves me, he will take care of me, will help me, wants me to live with him, we will work it out and he wants to spend he's life with me... Sometimes he seems to act like he is planning on marrying me if I go over there to see him... I am NOT ready for marriage! He said he will pay for my plane ticket if I can not afford it. This is all very overwelming! I'm 20, 21 next year, I feel so young and rushed at the moment. I'm confused and my mind is a jumble.
MEL914 Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 wow iv been telling my girl the same things and she's ready but her parents wont let her come up here and she's still in school so maybe after she's done she will move here and we can do what we have been wanting to do for a long time so i hope! but yea if you dont feel like making such a big move in your life then just tell him he needs to know whats in your mind maybe he will just take it a lil slow from then on untill your ready.
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