hotpickles Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 hi i have a friend who is a stripper and she comes over to my house every now and then and my boyfriend has a hard time keeping his eyes in his head when she comes over. This is to the point where i ask him to please stop staring. I work nights and the cable tv phone bill came in yesterday and sure enough he has racked up porn on the nights that i have been at work. surprise surprise. I checked out the movies he was "watching" and none of the girls look like me, but they all look like this stripper friend of mine!! am i being paranoid or is this totally ****** up! I mean, if thats what he wants than go have it....I am just a normal woman, i dont have pnuematic size 40DD breasts and a size 0 body. I am not tanned tropical bronze in colour. I dont have betox to remove the little lines near my eyes. I dont have bleached blonde hair. I dont have a surgically sewn up pussy. My arsehole isnt bleached a delicate shade of pink. My teeth dont glow in the dark. My vocabulary doesnt consist of only words that end in ooh or ahhh or Your cock is too big for me. my skin isnt airbrushed to the point that water slides straight off me. I guess i am just "me". Apparently being "me" doesnt cut it anymore. Are there any other "me's" out there who think i am being ridiculous. Or am i being slapped in the face with a turkey?
Carbine Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Hey, I feel for ya! You're NOT being paranoid but at the same time I don't think you really have anything to worry about in terms of your bf to cheating or whatever. Men are just so disgusting and insensitive (so are most strippers so it's a usually a perfect match). All it takes is for an attractive girl to come into the room and for awhile, you'll cease to exist in your man's world. It hurts, yeah but there's sweet f*** all you can do about it. If you try to set some boundries then you're automatically labelled as a selfish, controlling, psychotic freak and if you try and put up with it, it crushes your self-esteem pretty damn fast. I know, I've been there . Correct me if I'm wrong but I sort of feel from your post that maybe it's not just a problem with the friend, but a self-esteem thing in general? Have u considered ditching the friend? Sounds harsh, but maybe it's worth it. I never make friends with girls who are prettier than me. Yeah, it's avoiding the problem rather than confronting it but sometimes ya gotta do it to save yourself. Have you actually taken the issue up with your bf yet?
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