Mezzi Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Hi guys, ive know this guy for over a year. We just say hi and bye. Well he is one of those scary looking guys. Piercings in both ears, a tattoo, dresses tough and wears a lot of jewellery but he does very well school. When we first met he came on pretty strong and I pushed him away since I was trying to work out things with my boyfriend at the time and he didnt really appeal to me. What I especially didnt like was the fact that he pranked called me from a anonymous number (but I recognized his voice) and said "Is it true you have a nice p**sy?" I was shocked and just hung up. I think I said "Dave, is that you?" He didnt call AGAIN after that. Well around two weeks ago late in the night I had to walk a little distance he was passing while I was on my phone telling my father it was cool he didnt have to come as I would walk. He stopped and said he would follow me where I was going. This is at school by the way but the campus is HUGE...lol We walked and he asked me if I still had a boyfriend and when we can go out. I didnt really answer and he said he really wanted to go out after finals. Well he called me yesterday and it was kind of awkward and he called me today but I was in a noisy environment (the hairdresser) and he said he would call back but hasnt yet. I know he will call back and he is okay I guess but his appearance is just a little scary and I know my family would disapprove. Also, I know people would always look our way if we were dating. Generally just his etiquette would probably turn me off. I mean come on the guy pranked me and said that and he barely knew me. WTF?!?! What do you guys think? Since I already have so many reservations, scrap it? Or just go out and see what happens? To be honest I havent gone out on a date since 2006. Ive been in my shell (as usual) and so far the people that have come unto me are just not what im looking for in one way or the next. This time around Dave seems to be acting more decent but it would all be an act since he may be trying a new approach the second time around. Hmmm Guys tell me what you think? Thanks in advance for all your replies and help!!!
EYECANDY000 Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Mezzi, I'm sorry but I am totatlly confused from your posting.. you state that your not interested, he's creeped you out before, he's scary looking, not your type, and your parents wouldn't approve and you want to know should you persue him?
EYECANDY000 Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Mezzi , I'm confused from your posting... you stated that he has cranked called you, he's not your type, your not interested, he creeps you out your parents wouldn't approve, and you want to give him a chance because?
Author Mezzi Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 LOL LOL EYECANDY000, I know right. Well you know they say opposites attract. Plus ive been wondering if im being a little too picky with guys that show interest. Thanks again for the advice!
Author Mezzi Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 HELLLLOOOOOOO??!? No more advice for me?
LovesDog Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 Opposites don't really attract. Is this guy good looking? From the prank call alone, I would say NO, don't go out with him. How old is this guy anyway? If he's like 18, then maybe the prank call is unforgivable (being a drunk college student n all) but if he's like 25+ then there is a serious issue there!
Author Mezzi Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 Thanks for the reply LovesDog No he is just average looking. I think he is 24 years old.
sumdude Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 What does your gut instinct tell you? go with that... If you're asking you probably have doubts. From my point of view a prank call like that from an 'adult' man shows little class but maybe that's just me.
Author Mezzi Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 I definitely agree sumdude. He is an adult it was unacceptable and classless for him to do that. Im sure he was not drunk etc. when he placed the call as well. When I heard him say that I was in SHOCK. I was talking to my mother at the time and after the call she was like what happened?!?! My reaction was pure astonishment. All in all I doubt I will go out with him. He should have thought before he made the call. The more I think about it now the more annoyed im getting. We would be a mismatch, he has a tough/thug looking appearance im just the opposite of all of that. We ran into each other in a fast food place once and were eating together briefly because when he came in I was almost finished and everyone was looking our way. Im not sure that is what I want and guys like him usually do not change for the better. Thanks sumdude for the reply.
MrMichael Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 sounds like you are considering this guy because "no one has asked you since 2006"...sumdude is right> go with your gut..his phone deal was wrong, and immature, yet you mention, eating together, walking together, etc. attraction is attraction, you either ARE or ARE not....if you like him, it wont or shouldnt matter what friends think based on apperance, its how he treats you that counts
Summer_guy_uk Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 You're already going to go out with him because he's different and a bit of exciting! It might not end well but you might enjoy the journey! Let us know how you get on!
Author Mezzi Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 sounds like you are considering this guy because "no one has asked you since 2006"...sumdude is right> go with your gut..his phone deal was wrong, and immature, yet you mention, eating together, walking together, etc. attraction is attraction, you either ARE or ARE not....if you like him, it wont or shouldnt matter what friends think based on apperance, its how he treats you that counts YAWNS, which is why sometimes I dont like soliciting advice on this forum. Too many analyzers are apparently here. Did I say no one has asked me out since 2006?? NO, I said I have not been out on a date since 2006. These statements are not equal. I have been asked out by guys and have turned them down because they did suit me in one way or the next. I do not LIKE this guy, I was considering getting him to know him better to see if I will like him. I mention walking together uhm Mr.Michael, get this straight it was late it was dark he offers to walk with me as he was going in the same direction on the campus. He sat down BRIEFLY at my table at a restaurant which is hardly "eating together" as far as a mini-date is concerned. Thanks for the input nonetheless.
Author Mezzi Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 You're already going to go out with him because he's different and a bit of exciting! It might not end well but you might enjoy the journey! Let us know how you get on! lol, nope I doubt very much that I will be going out with him but if I do go against better judgement and date him I will let you guys know. Thanks for your reply Summer_guy_uk.
Cobra_X30 Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 lol, nope I doubt very much that I will be going out with him but if I do go against better judgement and date him I will let you guys know. Thanks for your reply Summer_guy_uk. Good, cause he creeps me out just reading about him! Why do something you KNOW your going to regret later. Sometimes we have "types" to keep us from making those dumb mistakes. It sounds like you have good judgement!
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