ghdeter Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 i can not, for the life of me, get my girlfriend to be close to me, she just seems so distant, can't even see her out of school that much because she says shes so busy, yet she finds time to hang out with her friends. It seems to me she doesn't really even like me, yet her friends tell me how she always talks about loving me so much, i can't even get a kiss from the girl, what the heck is going on here! i thought maybe her one friend that hates me(i spit on that bitch) is influencing her but she stays nuetral she says. i honestly think i might start doing pot from all thats going on in my life right now.
Timberlane Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 I really don't do well with women who are not affectionate. Well, give it some time and see if she gets more into you. If not, you might not have a relationship that is going to go anywhere. Do ask her how she feels about the relative lack of warmth between you.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Have you tried the old ' monkey see, monkey do' .. maybe if you try to be a very affectionate towards her and show her then she will eventually mimick your actions. But also if shes just not an affectionate person then its nothing you can really do about it. You can try to either just put up with it, or like i said show her. But if you keep mentioning it to her and theres still no improvement , then you get tired of it and start searching else where. But as far as her spending more time with her friends and to busy for you , i would comment about that.
Mezzi Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 That sounds strange to me. If she says she loves you, she should at least be a little affectionate. Not even a kiss?!?! Sounds weird to me, definitely sounds like something is going on there. I think you need to ask her straight up what is going on?
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