EYECANDY000 Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 When you are dating someone and it seems like the only time you get to speak to them is when you call, text, or ask to see them in person, How long would you wait until you call again. Meaning, it seems that this person never initiates any conversation, but everytime you talk its always a blast . but they just never call first. Just wondering if it seems like I am playing childish games by testing him to see how long it would take to call, or if its him , who just dont seem to care!
Numerouno Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 How long would I wait until I call/text a person who doesn't care about the relationship? I'd call them straight away and I'd say... "Hey moron! See that thing in your hand that you're holding? No, no, not that thing. I'm talking about the phone. You ring people with it! It's called com-mun-i-ca-tion. Speaking of which. Listen up! Don't bother calling me, cause it's over!" Problem solved.
Author EYECANDY000 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 thanks numero.. hahahaah The thing is that he says that he cares, but i feel like the only time we talk is when i call or text.. It hasnt been long, but so far its been almost two days if he dont call tonight . and I know if i text him or call him then we will talk for like hours at a time. but i just cant get him to initiate it first. Now, let me clear this up as well.. Im never the type of person to jump to conclusions. because I know anything can happen, and I never have been that type of person who jumps to conclusions and go off the deep end with someone to only find out that it was a tragic going on in their life. I would call him and ask what he do today or how was your day and his response would be something like I did absolutely nothing today! huh????????? and of course here I go again repeating the same ol line" u didnt do anything and u couldnt call or text to say hi w.f.t?
Numerouno Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 The thing is that he says that he caresOkay, now you've probably heard this one before but here goes... Action speaks louder than words! If you haven't heard of that saying before, download it, stick it to your forehead and stare at yourself in the mirror until the penny drops. but i feel like the only time we talk is when i call or text.. Here's another one for ya... It's called a "Power Trip." Or else, he's still busy with that other hand of his... It hasnt been long, but so far its been almost two days if he dont call tonight . Yeah well to me, in this situation, two days is the same as two years. And that can drive a person crazy.and I know if i text him or call him then we will talk for like hours at a time. but i just cant get him to initiate it first.Let's say you get this issue sorted out and then you become lovers (ewwww!) What happens then when it comes to initiating intimacy/sex? Huh? I suppose he'll just lock himself in the closet and expect you to find the key to the door. And, who knows, when you finally find that key, well whadya know... He's just come out of the closet!Now, let me clear this up as well.. Im never the type of person to jump to conclusions. because I know anything can happen, and I never have been that type of person who jumps to conclusions and go off the deep end with someone to only find out that it was a tragic going on in their life.Uh huh... I'm not that smart. All I'm hearing here is that you don't jump to conclusions. If that's what you meant, well that's nice to know... Remember now, I told you I wasn't a brainiyack! I would call him and ask what he do today or how was your day and his response would be something like I did absolutely nothing today! huh????????? Sounds like you got a bit of a weirdo on your hands there. That doesn't surprise me, there's a lot of them out there! A million things happen in a day and when you REALLY connect with a person the answer is never "I did nothing today."and of course here I go again repeating the same ol line" u didnt do anything and u couldnt call or text to say hi Wait... Let me get my megaphone... HE"S DOESN'T CARE! YOU'RE BETTER THAN THAT AREN'T YOU?!?! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!w.f.t?Exactly! What the f... tells me you're struggling with the person and the fact that he's not communicating. Whenever "w t f" comes into my mind. I locate the source of that saying and get whatever caused it to get the f... out of my life!
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