budd98 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 I have a question. I have been broken up for a few weeks now with minimal contact with the ex. Seems like the only real contact she gives me is "I hear you were out again last night." I don't respond and then she will say "Is that all you do now is go out?" I then write back telling her I was there with my guy friends having a drink and appetizers. That is all we did and it was an early night. So then she writes back "Please just leave me alone." Now what the heck. Why would she contact me asking questions and when I answer them, she says that. I write her back and she doesn't reply. Why is she acting this way? Any ideas?
Frankie24 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Because you are giving her the bait hun If she answers questions just ignore her if she continues so cause you aggro just tell her that she's irrelevant in your life and you stopped caring the day you split
Author budd98 Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 But I still love her and want to be with her. When she asks these questions, what is the best thing to do to get back together?
Frankie24 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Best advice i can give you is leave her to her devices you love her fair enough but your beating yourself up about it. Shell come to her senses if she wants to be with you. Get out enjoy yourself show her that life doesnt stop necessarily because you split. Hopefully she'll soon see sense
Rowen Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Don't take her bait. She's probably feeling guilty and trying to find ways to argue with you so she can validate her decision.
Frankie24 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Don't take her bait. She's probably feeling guilty and trying to find ways to argue with you so she can validate her decision. Exactly my point
WakeUpPeople Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Budd98 the only head games she has on u is the one u allow to play..Yah broke up, what you do with your life is none of her business u dont have to answer to her, and what she does with her life has nothing to do with u. Cut her off for month or even longer if must...That means no contact, no text, no email, NO NOTHING FOR A MONTH OR MORE SPAN, NO LESS THAN THAT..If she truly loves u she'll be back they always do trust me..This time of no talking is for u to heal and getting back on track with your life...u happened to run across her in the streets she asks u what u been doing cuz u gonna to busy for her now, u been working out and also going on dates because jealously is a powerful emotion, don't let ur emotions fool ur logic...if u follow the plan u'll get her back..u have to act like u don't care cuz u shouldn't, your still young and life does move on. We'll see how u do so u can receive further instructions. Im telling you now what u do with the infomation i tell u is soley up to u if u want to use it or not, but your not going to get what im saying until you open your own eyes...
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