loll Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Before you read this please dont judge me. i was going out with my ex for 6 years, we bought a house and moved in together then it started to go wrong, he was seeing someone behind my back, i found out and forgave him but we then broke up. i was still seeing him all the time but we were never officially back together, we kiss, cuddle and even sleep together, i depend on him alot and he also depended on me. the girl he was seeing behind my back and him got together but it didnt last as she couldnt understand our relationship i was thrilled they broke up of course!! we have the same circle of friends. he really really has hurt me due to his cheating, but i just forgive him all the time. we are both in our late 20's. he has gone travellin for a couple of months and i am really missing him, i am going to visit him soon for a holiday and i cant wait. i havent met anyone new, all of my friends are in relationships either married or engaged and have mostly families of their own, so socialising is hard as they dont really go out that much, i live in a small town so making new friends is not easy, they have no idea how desperately unhappy i am. i love this guy wholeheartily and he knows this but seems to just keep stringin me on, we talk every day even though he is far away, we are so close, i just dont know what to do to get him back.........please help
breakup Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Seems like a unhealthy relationship to me. Just sound like you guys are friends with benefits. I believe in second chances also. Is the move that they make afterwards is what I really look at. Not sure how many times he has cheated on you tho... IMO, I think you should sit down and talk to him. Ask him if he see a future with you in it. If not then you should really move on.
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