Heydrich Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Okay, so the situation is this, a 29 year old, who has only has never had a girlfriend his entire life. Is this necessarily a HUGE red flag or a pretty big warning sign? Any replies or input would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Dynamo Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Not a red flag at all. There are tons of reasons he may not have dated yet; concentrating on his education or career choices, didn't feel ready for the commitment, past issues, etc etc etc.. And the good old standby "I've been waiting for the perfect girl".
Heavenly55 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Dating and having a relationship are two seperate things. If he has not even dated yet or has no interest in women at all then yea it's a red flag. Otherwise he's never met anyone that he liked that much to pursue a relationship with, is a player, just wants sex and not a relationship, plenty of reasons.
Krytie TV Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Red flag or not, I think most of us would agree that it takes several good and bad relationships before we learn how to be a good partner. Someone with NO experience will likely fumble their way throught their first few. Meaning, I think the prognosis for a successul relationship with someone like this is low at best.
Author Heydrich Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 Dating and having a relationship are two seperate things. If he has not even dated yet or has no interest in women at all then yea it's a red flag. Otherwise he's never met anyone that he liked that much to pursue a relationship with, is a player, just wants sex and not a relationship, plenty of reasons. Heavenly, good response, thanks I appreciate it. You made me realize that I should have been more clear in my description. In response to your post, the fact is that he has never dated during this time, so it is not like he has been consistently dating but was never in a relationship. He has never gone out on a true "date." If I am not misreading your response, then, you think that this would most likely be a really big red flag then, correct? Thanks everyone for the responses.
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