FooledOnce Posted November 30, 2007 Posted November 30, 2007 Been on a break since 9/9, definately final since 10/31 after 5.75 years. It's just finally setting in a month later that we're never going to be together again. Maybe it's for the better, i dunno. It's hard to imagine it is though. We were both first loves (25 now) and there's no way that I can ever see myself having that kind of intimacy and that kind of innocent love again. I mean, I loved her with my whole heart like it would never end and my heart would never be broken. How could i expose my heart like that again?
WakeUpPeople Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Listen FoolOnce, you'll be fine trust me u'll get over it. First, get rid of anything that reminds you of her, EVERYTHING!!!!....cut her off out of your life completely..NO CONTACT NO NOTHING, remove that hope that ya shall return again as a couple, its always easier to start fresh with a new mirror than a broken one..Yes u will find love again and great sex but let time run its course. For now focus on whats important to you in your life and goals, meet new people and date lightly, nothing serious as time goes on that person you once loved will become nothing more than a memory......The Wake Call.
Author FooledOnce Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Thanks, that was inspiring and good advice. I feel a bit better about myself now that I've flirted with another chick. She called my phone by mistake (wrong number) and I busted some game. We ended up flirting for 45 minutes! However, it turned out that she was only 18. But then guess who I wanted to tell about it? Not in a 'you should be jealous' way but in a 'honey, you're not gonna believe what happened to me" way. I just can't picture her as a memory or as a friend, i still (almost 3 months later) see her as a lover. You're totally right about the new mirror vs broken mirror. I'm wise enough to know that there's nothing i can do to change the situation, it just kinda bums me out, that's all.
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