MattyTee Posted November 30, 2007 Posted November 30, 2007 I just wanted to post an update on my situation. I'm doing much better these days. There have been ups and downs of course but I'm learning to cope with them as and when they crop up. I'm not disappearing totally but I'm keeping my LS time to a minimum as I find myself sucked in to remembering all the sadness again. I can probably never say thank you enough to all the people that have been with me throughout this. I'm afraid of writing out names because I'll undoubtedly forget someone, but to highlight a few: Spinderella - for some great wisdom, a lot of support, company and laughs! Reboot - for challenging me when I needed it and some down to earth advice Jmina - incredible wisdom (I seriously don't believe you about your age ) Carrot - a fiery temper, some challenging words and a lot of care! k10 - for being the first person (I think) to comment on my blog and for sharing your stuff with me too Bos - although he's not reading much any more, I'm sending good wishes to you! There are probably 200 more people I've forgotten to thank, but really, deeply ... thank you! Before I came here I felt alone and confused. Now I'm just confused (Also, just wanted to add that when I feel strong enough to read through every one elses heartache I shall surely spend more time trying to help others as others helped me)
Scorpio13c Posted November 30, 2007 Posted November 30, 2007 Glad your doing better pal! Do drop in now & again, others could use your experience & insights. Take it easy! Scorp
Author MattyTee Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 Scorp man, how could I forget about you I will bro, you were a massive help to me too. Hopefully it's just up from here
your star Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Hi Matty, you know I wish nothing but the best for you. I understand what you mean about not hanging around here "too" often. I'm thinking about getting away for awhile so I can push myself over this bump in the road I'm facing. "SOmetimes you need to get lost to find yourself"... best of luck to you as you move forward
SunnyLady Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Matty, You have been so much help to me!! I hope and i know you will find peace once again... Best Wishes. xxxx
Author MattyTee Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 Eee ghad! I knew I would forget people! Star and Sunny!!! You guys have helped me through the tough days and I thank you from the bottom of my heart too. I know both of you will find that happiness deserve so much! I still write on my blog and I will come back here from time-to-time. I shall miss you both! And Star ... I still hope something eats her!!
k10k Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Hehehe..yip Matty - twas me who posted on your blog So glad to hear that you're doing well and taking positive steps forward. I think you have helped so many people along the way by sharing so much, and like I said before, you really do have a great big heart. Sending you a big big big ray of sunshine
Jmina Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 All the best Matty Tee!! thankyou for your kind words. I really am only just 24! =D You are on a great journey! =) create yourself, discover more and more and hold love inside you, express your love, send love through the air, i know you will stay open hearted and will take care of yourself. Take as much time as you need for Matty Tee. All the best Talk sometime soon Jmina. xxx
frd150 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Hey Matty, Good luck. Ive always admired that even thought you were hurting you were still able to help others. All the best. Seriously man you will find someone great. FRD
Author MattyTee Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 *grin* Still don't believe you J!!! But, really, it's nothing to do with age and I know that Hey FRD bro, I'm just passing it along the line. It actually helped me too to be able to see what other people were going through - and as I was writing to them, it was often to me too.
frd150 Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 *grin* Still don't believe you J!!! But, really, it's nothing to do with age and I know that Hey FRD bro, I'm just passing it along the line. It actually helped me too to be able to see what other people were going through - and as I was writing to them, it was often to me too. Thats kinda the way I see it. I think thats why most of us are here. A bunch of good souls.
Author MattyTee Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Lovely quote for you: "We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same."
brothermartin Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Hey MATTY, Thank you for being one of the first people to welcome me here an help me out man. I'm glad to hear you're doing better. Hope it last a long time for you!
bustertypsy Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Hey Mattie,sorry to read that you won't be around as much as you have been.Your input,advice and selfless attitude have shown me and others on this forum how truly human you are.I have taken your advice geniunely, and found it very helpful.I hope you are healing,like most of us here.I'm sure in six months time most of us will have gotten our lives back in order and moved on and there will be a new "MattyTee" to help the heartbroken people out there.But you were there when I needed help,and you helped enormously,so for that I thank you and I hope,am sure the future is looking bright for you.
Author MattyTee Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 Hey guys, Thank you for the kind words. I'll do my best to be around and post if I can, I just felt that when I read over things it would make me feel sad and start remembering I think I just need to take that time to get over that bit and I'm sure I'll be right as rain.
funkybassplayer Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 when your better you will be back to help others, as i do, cool be well.
Author MattyTee Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 Hey Funky! Damn I forgot loads of people! You were a great support mate, I will be back and I'll do what I can in the meantime anyway
Author MattyTee Posted December 4, 2007 Author Posted December 4, 2007 Is that for you Funky? I wasn't married ... so I assume it must be
luvmy2ns Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 Is that for you Funky? I wasn't married ... so I assume it must be Oops. I think I must have had you confused with another poster. Just ignore me when I blather on incoherently!
Bosiell Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 Hey matt Sorry not been on as much. Personally I am getting there slowly but surely, its a long road ahead but its a journey I will not tire of as long as I still have breath in me. Very best of wishes my friend. Peace n Respect..
Author MattyTee Posted December 5, 2007 Author Posted December 5, 2007 No probs luv, it wasn't the most original username in the world Hey Bos, I know how you feel man and I'm rooting for you. I'm sure we'll both be fine All the best Matt
ninjaturtles Posted December 5, 2007 Posted December 5, 2007 Matty! Been meaning to write on this thread. I wish you happiness, you truly deserve it!! You always took time to answer people's questions...I learnt a lot from reading your advice. Very enouraging, heartfelt. You gave a lot to this forum. Do return from time to time. Goodluck and stay strong:-)xx
ninjaturtles Posted December 5, 2007 Posted December 5, 2007 Matty! Been meaning to write on this thread. I wish you happiness, you truly deserve it!! You always took time to answer people's questions...I learnt a lot from reading your advice. Very enouraging, heartfelt. You gave a lot to this forum. Do return from time to time. Goodluck and stay strong:-)xx
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