Jamian Posted November 30, 2007 Posted November 30, 2007 Hi everyone Thanks for helping me, I'm now doing my best to try to get over the heartbreak of the last couple of weeks. The only thing I'm worried about is the festive season coming up. I get a fortnights break during Christmas and am worried about how I will keep myself occupied to stop myself thinking of the ex and how she may be having a whale of a time with a new guy while I'm still stuck in a rut remembering last years Christmas and how we were so close. I really want to be able to enjoy Christmas as I have always enjoyed this time of year. However, I feel so miserable due to my recent break up that I'm considering not even putting Christmas decorations up, I'm struggling to see the point without the happiness of previous years. I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on how I might be able to get out of this depression that I have no doubt will become even more severe now that I am going to be alone without the woman I loved at Christmas. Suffering with the knowledge that she may be dating other people while I still nurse a broken heart.
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 30, 2007 Posted November 30, 2007 It is tough and I was struggling with it too but I think I am gonna do everything I can incl decorations up and pressies, also making sure I am busy seeing people and out and about over Xmas. Better than staying in sulking, which was what I felt like doing but I am not going to let my ex ruin anymore of my time. You should perhaps think like that, make yourself have a good time, that way you'll not have too much time to think about the ex. xx
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