heartoutside Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 well that's not really NC if you are still looking at his myspace page or AIM. NC means you have nothing to do with them. When I would run into my ex at a party I didn't even talk to her.....I didn't think my ex would ever say or do what she has in the past couple of weeks. but at the same time doing NC has let me see the picture a little more clearly as well as work on my weaknesses and me....
BalancenLuv20 Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 I agree with heartoutside on this one. While me and my ex haven't talked in 2 and a half weeks now, I still can't help sometimes but look at her and her new bf's myspace page to see what kind of comments she writes to him and often times it just brings back the pain about when I saw what she wrote him while her and I were dating. When anyone ever mentions "myspace" it just makes me cringe and I hope that one day I can just stop wondering and no longer giving into my urges of looking at the comments. AIM in my opinion is often a terrible form of communication b/c people can so easily take things the wrong way on it and while I tried to im my ex once in a while, I also realized that it wasn't making me feel any better and we got in several fights on it after the breakup. I came to the conclusion that I needed to erase her from every social networking device possible.
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