Author I Cheated Posted January 4, 2008 Author Posted January 4, 2008 No, I'm not suicidal. I would never do anything like that. I'm just painfully aware of my actions and I'm feeling all of the fallout from my poor choices. I just feel so sorry for my wife. She is so sad and it's all my fault.
cj1988 Posted January 4, 2008 Posted January 4, 2008 I am sorry but you all keep saying CHEATING is a mistake, IT IS A CHOICE, a BAD choice but not a mistake. Forgetting to take out the trash is a mistake, sticking your penis into someone OVER AND OVER again, even just once is NOT a MISTAKE.....Sorry had to get that out !
Author I Cheated Posted January 29, 2008 Author Posted January 29, 2008 Well folks - it's official. My wife called me last night to inform me that she has begun a relationship with another man and she has fallen in love with him. She told me to stop calling her and that the only time I need to call her is if it relates to business, otherwise, she wants our marriage to be over with. She also told me that she wanted me to know that she was finally happy again. My heart has been ripped right out of my chest and it's all my fault. I cried myself to sleep last night.
jmargel Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 The first relationship after a marriage is always the rebound relationship. Those never last. Though I would follow her wishes, just let her know that you will be here if she ever needs to talk about things. Just a little nudge to her to let her know she is welcome in your life. Now is the time to start making the improvements in your life, and you never know.. She might take notice to them.
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