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This is an extension of a previous thread I had, but felt this needed it's own place.

 

What is needy?

 

I am dating a guy who says he is used to needy girls. I'm sure I don't fit into this category as I have my own life, my life doesn't revolve around a man, and have my own aspirations and goals that won't change no matter who I'm with. But I do have certain expectations about the amount of time that should be devoted to getting to know someone better. It doesn't have to be face to face time. It can be online communication, phone calls, or texting. So where do you draw the line between some one trying to get to know you better and someone who is being needy?

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To me there are two kinds of needy:

 

1) When someone has absolutely no life of her own and needs someone else in order to do things, have fun, and so on.

 

2) Emotionally needy people that need to be constantly reassurred they are loved, they look good, etc.

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Thank you littlepiggy1 for responding. Hopefully others will follow suit...

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