allina Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Did you tell him? Are you seeing it tonight? If you are don't drink too much or it might slip out, then you'll need a quick cover up plan You- "I love you!" Guy- "Huh?" You- "I love you in blue socks! I said I love you in blue socks!"
Author Star Gazer Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 Did you tell him? Are you seeing it tonight? If you are don't drink too much or it might slip out, then you'll need a quick cover up plan You- "I love you!" Guy- "Huh?" You- "I love you in blue socks! I said I love you in blue socks!" Nerd. Are you trying to make me ruin this so that you can have me all to yourself? You ready to switch teams already? HAHAHAHA!! He's out of town for the weekend. Perfect timing for me to catch up on...well...being ME.
allina Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Nerd. Are you trying to make me ruin this so that you can have me all to yourself? You ready to switch teams already? HAHAHAHA!! He's out of town for the weekend. Perfect timing for me to catch up on...well...being ME. Gosh, busted, you got me :laugh:
oppath Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Nerd. Are you trying to make me ruin this so that you can have me all to yourself? You ready to switch teams already? HAHAHAHA!! He's out of town for the weekend. Perfect timing for me to catch up on...well...being ME. Catch up? Did you not get the memo that you are a beautiful (and sexy), smart, confident woman who could kick most guys butts (except for mine at air hockey)? You're already at the head of the class. You don't need to catch up.
johan Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 Consider your ass kissed! Hope that didn't leave a mark that might get you in trouble later.
Author Star Gazer Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Catch up? Did you not get the memo that you are a beautiful (and sexy), smart, confident woman who could kick most guys butts (except for mine at air hockey)? You're already at the head of the class. You don't need to catch up. Thank you for the shot of confidence, but unfortunately, yes I do.
Kamille Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 Thank you for the shot of confidence, but unfortunately, yes I do. A sad face? Everything all right?
Author Star Gazer Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 A sad face? Everything all right? Everything's fine. I'm just spending way too much time overthinking this and worrying myself to the point of sickness...
LovesDog Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 I'M SO JEALOUS!!! What a great rollercoaster to ride. I'm fighting it right now...only because my relationship is so new (just over a month) and I am so unsure and insecure. I swear I fell in love the first day I met "him", but that is never truly love. Time brews this naked emotion (thanks for the wordplay, shadowplay!). I am fighting it but dying to be where you are in a crazy whirlwind, but securely, of course If only it were that easy. These butterflies are driving me batty! Isn't it crazy fun, stargazer? My suggestion? Let it ride.....
Art_Critic Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 Hey SG.. Do you still see your FWB?.. or is he gone from the picture for good ?
Author Star Gazer Posted December 3, 2007 Author Posted December 3, 2007 Hey SG.. Do you still see your FWB?.. or is he gone from the picture for good ? HUH?!?! I have a BF, A_C!! Of course I don't see FWB anymore! FWB is lonnnnnnnnnng gone. He has been since before BF, actually, when I was casually dating someone else. I don't think it's possible to have a FWB while also hoping to find something meaningful.
Art_Critic Posted December 3, 2007 Posted December 3, 2007 HUH?!?! I have a BF, A_C!! Of course I don't see FWB anymore! FWB is lonnnnnnnnnng gone. He has been since before BF, actually, when I was casually dating someone else. I don't think it's possible to have a FWB while also hoping to find something meaningful. I agree... I didn't think you were still seeing him... I just remembered one time that you mentioned your trusty ole FWB that you used to keep in the shadows so I thought I would ask...
JCD Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 SG, it seems to me like you are more into him then he is into you. When I was into a girl, I behaved like you do. I was crazy about her, brought her a flower and everything. That's how a guy shows his love for you. Has he been romantic with you at all? Taken you out on romantic outings like walk in the park, the beach, fancy restaurant, etc? I act like your b/f when I'm not that into a girl, when I feel like I would be settling with her. So I act reserved, hoping my feelings for her would increase but they don't. When I was in love, I would move mountains for this girl and wanted to be with her all the time.
whichwayisup Posted December 4, 2007 Posted December 4, 2007 SG, it seems to me like you are more into him then he is into you. This is a very unfair statement!! Not every guy is romantic and mushy, let alone wanting to spend EVERY minute of EVERY day with his new girlfriend. Some like to have space, some still like to have their own separate things they like to do on your own. Just because you are one type of guy who shows his emotions one way, doesn't mean that ALL men have to follow that path. Sure, it's nice, but it is also nice to have a man be himself and not 'have' to be romantic 24/7. Sometimes THAT is smothering.
Author Star Gazer Posted December 4, 2007 Author Posted December 4, 2007 SG, it seems to me like you are more into him then he is into you. When I was into a girl, I behaved like you do. I was crazy about her, brought her a flower and everything. That's how a guy shows his love for you. Has he been romantic with you at all? Taken you out on romantic outings like walk in the park, the beach, fancy restaurant, etc? I act like your b/f when I'm not that into a girl, when I feel like I would be settling with her. So I act reserved, hoping my feelings for her would increase but they don't. When I was in love, I would move mountains for this girl and wanted to be with her all the time. Is he romantic? Yessirree bob. He cooks for me every night we stay in together. He takes me places I've mentioned in passing (i.e., pays attention). He compiles play lists of music I like and plays it in the background as we're making dinner together. He draws me bubble baths when I'm not feeling well. He rubs my feet. He snuggles me. He calls me multiple times a day. He sends me emails and texts to tell me he's thinking of me. He's a gentleman in every way. And all this in just two months. On the other hand, if he were to question himself, "What has SHE done for ME lately?" his answer would be much less. That's why I sometimes feel guilty for having high expectations when I'm probably not meeting his... When I started this thread, I was on an emotional rollercoaster related to PMS, finances, work stress, and this new relationship which poses feelings I've never felt before. And I'm a female - prone to over analyze and freak out. Today was also a momentary freak out, and we've moved past it to a much better place already. So there.
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