Crono69 Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 Basically I been seeing this girl who has a BF but suddenly she stopped talking to me because she says rumors are going around that I been telling people she hooks up with me every weekend which is not true I never said that. She leaves me myspace comments saying shes coming home for the weekend. People can easily read those. Thats how its going around. She was telling a couple people she liked me but now when people confront her of hooking up with me she denies it. Now I didnt ask for any of this. She told me she had liked me for a while a couple months ago despite having a BF. I didnt come on to her. In october I asked her to come over to my place. It was 2am and she agreed. What else would a guy and a girl do at that time? So anyways we made out and I slept with her but no sex she just fell asleep in my arms. After that she texted me everyday saying she misses me and stuff. Now 2 months later she stops talking to me cause of the rumors and told me straight up she doesnt like me. Telling me she rejected me that day she spent the night and that I tried to have sex with her and she told me to take her to her car which didnt happen because again she fell asleep in my arms and then said she had to go home because it was late and she had to go back a whole state away to her school. So now shes trying to make me look like a liar to my friends and everyone else. But thing is my inbox is never cleared and has about 500 texts from her and I have a whole bunch of myspace messages from her. I can expose her for what she is and clear me from looking like a liar. Should I do it?
Lyssa Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 So now shes trying to make me look like a liar to my friends and everyone else. But thing is my inbox is never cleared and has about 500 texts from her and I have a whole bunch of myspace messages from her. I can expose her for what she is and clear me from looking like a liar. Should I do it? Has any of your friends treated you differently? Don't your friends know you enough to know what type of a guy you are? I don't know about "exposing" her. Why don't you try talking to her? Ask her why is she being nasty to you.
Author Crono69 Posted November 29, 2007 Author Posted November 29, 2007 Thats the thing she wont respond to any of my messages or answer my calls. It came out of no where. 1 point shes all cute with me asking how I am and saying goodnight then over night she wants nothing to do with me. Shes telling old co workers this too so its not just my friends.
Ms_Natalie Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 Leave well alone...get happy, get a better looking lady friend!!!
Art_Critic Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 Don't expose her ... that will just make things worse and drag out the drama. Just forget about her get another GF.. Time has a way of making these things die down and go away.. In some time nobody will even remember the drama.. Make sure to clean up your myspace page and remove her as a friend as well...
Author Crono69 Posted December 1, 2007 Author Posted December 1, 2007 Well Im feelin a little guilty now. Im thinking about showing pictures of some of our texts to her BF cause I think he needs to know now. I have about 50 of about 500 of our texts on my computer now and was gonna just put them in one picture and send them to her BF as proof of her cheating. Would that make me look crazy?
Ms. Red Posted December 1, 2007 Posted December 1, 2007 If you sent that to her BF it could identify you as the other person texting with her. I have my cell phone set up where the history shows the name that I make for the contact person as well as myself. I'd be careful because I had a friend in the situation you mentioned about how she made out with you & then turned it on you like you didn't stop when she said NO. With my friend all they did was heavy making out. Then the bitch started going all over town telling everyone that he raped her. He was a virgin. All they did was a heavy makeout session. Follow the above advise & let it blow over. But keep those texts in case you may need them to cover you ass in the future.
Author Crono69 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Thing is Ive known her for like a year but after we madeout and she spend the night at my house we kept in touch for another 1.5-2 months mostly her asking how Im doing. I dont think she would turn it on me other then the fact to make it not look like shes a cheating whore because everyone knows she has a BF. I just think its dumb how things could get ruined because other people dont have lives and talk about us its BS. But the texts all say From: Her and my texts say To: her I also have a picture of her on my phone and a pic of her # in my phone on my PC. But yeah shes trying to tell people she rejected me when she was the one who had a crush on me.
Adreanna Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 It sounds as if your wanting to tell people or her boyfriend about this claimed "crush" she has on you is because she is someone else's and not yours.
ICallsEmAsISeesEm Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 With all due respect, you all sound extremely young. You're at an age where you'll have a new girlfriend every couple of months anyway, so why even bother with this girl? Just hearing about the MySpace nonsense pretty much tells the story. Try to extricate yourself from this juvenile silliness and aim higher.
Author Crono69 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Everyone knows she had a crush on me I just kinda wanted to shove it in her face that her lies wont work. About me sending the BF the texts, She has messed with my life so I dont want her walking out with someone by her side when she doesnt deserve anyone for what shes doing. I just wanna know if you think what I may do is a little weird..
torranceshipman Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Its all a bit petty Crono69 - I know you didn't start it, but I say avoid the pettiness, keep your dignity and leave it - but keep copies of everything in case she does try to play it off like you were the one chasing her/in the wrong etc (just to cover your own back). It wouldn't be weird to act on all of this like you said, but it would be real childish - I know you're just operating at her level and you've felt pushed into it - but its still the act of a better man to walk away and keep your head held high.
Author Crono69 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Its not like im gonna keep bugging her but dont you think the BF should know whats going on?
Ms. Red Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Fine, do it. It seems like you will keep posting here until someone says that. Just keep in mind that it will probably fly back in your face & affect you more than her in the end.
Author Crono69 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 Um ok my original question was should I expose her to everyone. My second question ( Because I didnt want to make another topic ) Was do you guys think it would be weird to send them to her BF. Nvm forget I asked
OWoman Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 Um ok my original question was should I expose her to everyone. My second question ( Because I didnt want to make another topic ) Was do you guys think it would be weird to send them to her BF. Nvm forget I asked depends on what you want out of it. Besides revenge, which you've already said.
Author Crono69 Posted December 2, 2007 Author Posted December 2, 2007 I just have to vent out here cause I got noone to talk to about this. I dont get how any person can be like her. Something is seriously wrong with her. Who does this stuff and likes someone for 2 months and messages everyday then leave NO explantion as to why she hates me.. I dont get it. I never did anything to her she just believes the rumors are true and now she wont even tell me who is saying these things and why she suddenly stopped liking me. Then lie about ever seeing me. I could understand if it was some random girl but shes not. She was part of our group of friends why would she want to ruin it by pulling something like this. She was pretty close to my mom too. Im just so frustrated and confused over this. I dont get what shes thinking..
Gwyneth Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 She sounds a bit psychotic--LEAVE HER ALONE for your own good. Seriously, the police are more willing to believe a woman than a man when it comes to sexual crimes. Keep all your records, and contact your wireless phone company and ask them if there is a way you can save all those text messages for evidence if ever needed. Stop calling her--if you keep calling her, she can use that as harassment and then she will have evidence you "harass" her. Do NOT expose her--she's psychotic, leave the psychotic alone. Change your phone number--change your email--block her on MySpace.
PLAYBRAT Posted December 2, 2007 Posted December 2, 2007 If you insist on doing something to her...send her b/f a message... and tell him what you told us.Say if he doesn't believe you, that you DO have saved texts, messages etc. from her. Let him know you are giving him a heads up, but that your intention is not to cause trouble. Then drop it....
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